After almost 10 years of relationships with my ex-boyfriend, Feng Guo, I was lucky enough to be with Li Sung, the Tedo Native male.
I thought that my troubles with marrying the “indigenous” would be over.
But the facts tell me that marriage is not different from “local” or “outside”.
One.
At first, I enjoyed my relationship with Lee Sung.
Lee Sung’s house is very close to our company. It’s only four stops in the subway.
Soon after spring, Lee Cheng has proposed that I move into his house.
I was a little hesitant to live in his house for nothing before the wedding, and he’d make me look down on me.
But Lee Sung didn’t think:
“I’m serious with you, or I won’t invite you to my house for the New Year. My parents agree with you. I don’t know what you’re worried about. I’m telling you my concerns.
LEE Sung smiled and said, “If you feel sorry for yourself, let’s pay for it.” I’m sorry.
And then, it’s like a long night.
I admire Lee Sung. He’s in his 30s, but he’s got a lot of fresh air.
Strength. He’s alive and he reminds me of his 20s.
Yes, and I’ll still compare Lee Sung to Feng Guo.
This comparison is not conscious.
Like tonight, when Lee Sung gets off me, every hole in my body.
With satisfaction, you still think about Feng.
The last time Feng and I had so much fun, it seemed like we were just graduating from college.
After that, the burden of life became heavier on us until we couldn’t breathe.
Finally, even instinctive pleasures are lost.
For Li Sung, his life was free of pressure and his physical nature was preserved.
And it shall be a pleasure and a enjoyment for him.
And with His blessing, I can enjoy it now.
I’m a little sad for myself before, but more than that, for myself now.
I went into Lee’s arms and told him I’d move in next week.
I suddenly figured out that I didn’t want to screw myself up — that life had to be happy, and when it was time to enjoy it, I should enjoy it.
I live in Lee Sung’s house, where I can sleep for at least 30 more minutes a day and less crowded in the subway for 30 minutes.
Don’t underestimate the 30 minutes of sleep.
It allows me to relax, to be happy, to be happy in a straight line — to believe that everyone who has been in the big cities can understand my feelings.
Compared to this precious 30-minute consideration, it’s not worth it.
And since I’m living with Lee Sung, I’m getting the feeling that Lee is a very good partner.
Because he’s full of free time.
He works free. You get off work on time every day and go to your gym after a short meal. The rest of the time is almost entirely at home.
He likes to raise flowers, fish, and the whole home pattern is designed for his flowers and fish.
He was naturally responsible for keeping clean and clean, so as not to undermine the overall elegance.
Thanks to this, I have almost no additional household responsibilities other than laundry and cooking on weekends. Every morning, the curtains to the south balconies are drawn to the balconies and the fragrance.
I’ve always had an unrealistic dream.
After all, the sun in this city is priced.
When I used to live in a rental, the room in the sun was 560 more expensive than the room in the back.
Blocks.
Back then, Feng and I spent years in the dark trying to save money.
Don’t say flowers. People lack photosynthesis and feel depressed.
And the days with Lee Sung seem to have been so radiant because of the sun.
Come on.
I’m in a better position because there’s no concern. An example of direct female leadership
I was praised several times at the meeting.
One time off, I was on the same elevator with her. She told me, “You finally opened it.
I’m happy. I’m sorry.
I don’t know what she means.
She went on to say, “Do it right. For women, work doesn’t fail.
You are not an empty word. I’m sorry.
I’m laughing.
Turns out she thought that I’ve been working so hard lately because I broke up with Feng. From another angle, however, she understood correctly.
When I’m with Feng Guo, I’m tired of running home and buying food.
Food, housework — because Feng’s super-income is higher than me, and he’s more busy than me, so…
I’m supposed to do more housework.
But these chores only consume me, and they don’t promote me.
What’s more, it’s not real.
Don’t tell me it’s just a break-up. Even if it’s a divorce, I can’t do more housework because of me.
The additional requirement is the division of more property.
This is obviously very unfair to women.
So the woman leader is right. Only work does not fail women.
It’s like I’ve suddenly learned that I can’t wait to tell my heart to my best friend.
Moon, we want to do our job in the future.
And then the sister only said to me: “I hope you can keep it when you get married.”
First thought. I’m sorry.
I didn’t understand Luo Xiaozuki.
As far as I’m concerned, I’m living with Lee Sung, and I’m having a good time with him except for the wedding.
It’s no different than getting married.
And getting married only makes my existing life more secure. What else would it affect me?
Two.
After living with Lee Sung, if there’s anything wrong, you have to do it every weekend.
He went back to his parents for dinner.
They’re really nice to me.
But after all, I’m a foreign daughter-in-law.
The mother’s home is at home.
I’m more comfortable when I’m working.
Don’t bother to talk to the old guys.
So, every weekend, I grab a cook and a dishwasher.
At first, LEE Sung’s mother was a little upset not to give me the kitchen.
People.
But Li Sung told her:
“You used to talk about me being lazy and not enjoying your son?” I’m here for you.
To find a daughter-in-law so hard-working, to make you happy. Why aren’t you on your feet?
And? I’m sorry.
Lee Cheng sent his mother out of the kitchen and blinked at me.
I thought he was kind of sweet because a man’s kitchen made me more relaxed.
But I didn’t expect that this would be my home for a long time.
So every weekend, Li Seong talks to his parents in the living room, drinks tea, talks to his parents, and I’m all alone in the kitchen with my feet in the back of my head.
This often gives me the illusion that I have become his nanny.
Besides, LEE Sung’s mom is obviously very pleased with my position.
Soon, LEE Qiang took advantage of a family dinner to formally introduce me to his extended family.
After dinner, I’ll take Li Sung’s little niece out. When I got back, I heard that their family was talking about me.
She said, “This girl is a good girl, but she’s a stranger.” I’m sorry.
Mrs. Lee said, “Well, what are the locals for these days?”
“That’s not what she said. If it’s a local girl, there’s a room for parents. I’m sorry.
Lee Seng said, “Oh my gosh, what is the matter with you people? You can’t move. It’s not like we don’t have a room. Besides, the girl’s parents’ room, it’s my turn, it’s years later. I’ve been thinking about that stuff. It’s the real thing. I’m sorry.
I laughed and asked Li Sung what he could do to marry me, so he couldn’t even see the millions. Lee Cheng replied, “I am a wife who is good and capable, and who saves time and listens.”
We’re looking for a local. Can I have some comfort now? It’s been a long time.
What’s the use of it? I’m sorry.
He’s got my mother-in-law’s word.
“I didn’t have much to say about finding someone out of town. But these are…
You can’t say that this girl in the field has the advantage of a girl in the field. Just do it.
Which daughter-in-law can do this? I’m sorry.
No daughter-in-law can do it.
So, everyone says that Lee Sung is such a smartass.
I’m listening outside, but I’m having a hard time.
I know what I know about all this, but I heard him say it naked.
I’m still very disappointed.
That night, I had a fight with Lee Sung and rejected his plea.
He asked me what happened.
I said I heard him during the day. He didn’t look like he was looking for a wife.
Mmm.
I look forward to Lee Cheng being able to please me, even if it is just a few sweet words.
But Lee Sung didn’t even mean that.
Go on. All I say in the day is what I ask of my wife. I think you’re right. If you don’t think it’s right, we can rethink our minds.
Relationship. I’m sorry.
After that, he went to bed with the covers.
That night, after I moved into Lee Sung’s house, I couldn’t sleep for the first time.
I spent the night on my own in a bed two metres behind my back, and I was awakened.
Li Cheng was right.
It was a deal between me and him.
I’ll trade my beauty for his resources as a native.
It’s a relationship of hope.
There’s no one down there.
Having come to this point, I fell asleep instead of suffering.
The next day, I woke up first with Lee Sung, trying to get emotional.
When Lee Sung came to the Lord’s bedroom to find his clothes, I squeezed a line of tears and said, “You’re right.
You ready to break up with me?”
LEE Sung looked at me and finally pulled out a tissue and handed it to me.
Sleep?”
I nod my head.
Lee Zheng lamented me and put me in my arms: “I was too tired yesterday to speak. Don’t worry about it. I’m sorry.
I threw my tears into his arms, and I could stop.
My first fight with Lee Sung ended with my tears and his unsophisticated apologies.
But it’s not nothing.
At least we all know where each other is in this relationship.
Soon after, LEE Sung’s mother proposed at a weekend dinner: I hope LEE and I can get married sooner.
“You and Lee Sung are not young anymore. Now they’re all right. They’re the right people. I don’t think it’s too late. I’m sorry.
She said that in mid-March, 51, less than two months.
I felt a little hasty, but Lee Sing promised.
“We all listen to shit. I’m sorry.
My objection cannot be repeated.
“I’m supposed to go to your house with Lee Sung’s father.” But look at the wedding, there’s a lot to be done at home. I mean, we don’t meet before the wedding. It doesn’t matter if we don’t see each other. Of course, it’s just our one-sided idea.
Fahrenheit, if Lilly finds this rude…”
Lee Sung interrupted his mother: “I think it’s good, it’s convenient for everyone. I’m sorry.
He said yes by himself, and my mother agreed that’s what I meant.
It’s settled.
And then she said she said that, considering that I was busy with Lee Sung’s work and that she and Li Sung’s dad weren’t having sex.
It’s a big wedding. I’m glad Li Sung has a cousin for the wedding.
Leave the wedding to my cousin.
“Don’t worry about the costs. I’ll go with your dad. You’ll have someone to join.
That’s it. It’ll save you your job. Isn’t it Lily? I’m sorry.
At the time, I found out that LEE Sung-mei was a very nice person.
She made three unilateral decisions all night, but it’s well-founded, and she’s all over the place.
I’m fine.
That’s it. I’ve had a time I didn’t make.
I’ll just have to be there.
The wedding.”
And I wasn’t even proposed.
On my way home, I joked like Lee Sung said he owed me a proposal.
Lee Sung pulls a Coke out of the trunk and pulls it off. Put it on my hand.
“Will you marry me?” “I’m just crying.
He kissed me on the back of my hand, “Lili, I told you, I’m not a stylish.
People. Champagne roses, candlelight dinners, I don’t feel sincere. But don’t worry.
What’s to give you won’t be missing you. I’m sorry.
I looked at that ring in my hand, and I wanted to ask him specifically.
Is the ring true?
But I didn’t ask, I didn’t even show up.
That night, I couldn’t help but think of Feng.
When he proposed to me, he was much more important than Lee Sung Zheng. Was he…
More sincere than Lee Sung?
Soon after, Lee took me to pick out the ring. # With a bright, bright ring #
After wearing it in my hand, he said, “What’s up? I said I’m not missing you! I’m sorry.
I’m happy with the ring, but I can’t forget the zipper.
I have a feeling at this moment:
The diamond ring, it’s just me and Lee Sung.
And it’s “Riko.”
3
My parents were very concerned about Lee Sung’s parents’ failure to mention their marriage. “Whatever they say, you have to have your own idea! What kind of family don’t meet before we get married? I’m sorry.
I said to my mother, “I’m married to Lee Sung, and I’m out of my family. I’m not the one they despise. Would you like to show us a good look, please? I’m sorry.
When it comes to money, my mother naturally shut her mouth and stopped talking about the family meeting and instead cared about how many relatives I could have at my wedding.
“When you were in love with Feng, you found a poor kid who didn’t talk to his relatives. Now that you’re married to a good man, our family’s finally out of breath. It’s good to have a good face while you’re getting married. Your aunt and your father’s brothers, we’ll call and make you feel better, so your mother-in-law thinks there’s no one in our family. I’m sorry.
I asked my mother to stop and ask her, “Who will pay for the trip and the accommodation?” I’m sorry.
My mother rightly said, “Of course who marrys the wife and who gives up.” We’ve got a big girl at home, and we don’t want a bride price. They can’t afford it. What’s that supposed to mean? I’m sorry.
To be honest, all the relatives I mentioned in my mother’s mouth have no interest in inviting them to my wedding.
But out of a delicate mind, I raised my mother’s claims with her.
Because I want to know how much I can be in this so-called “my wedding”
The mother-in-law did not say yes or no, but simply said that: “Dad Li is a public official and is required to exercise strict control over the size of the reception, and that some of the old leaders and colleagues are unable to leave. I’m sorry.
She looked at me very hard, saying that it would be difficult to entertain my relatives again.
And he said, “I asked the old sisters, who were not in the same home as Lee Sung, to have a wedding in two separate houses, and to avoid a contradiction because of custom.” If relatives want to come to Beijing, they can come back after the wedding. We’ll have more fun with Lee Sung. I’m sorry.
And to put it this way, if I insist, it’s my family’s ignorance — it’s like my relatives deliberately wanted to use my wedding.
I told my mother what she meant.
My mother was really angry this time, thinking that my mother-in-law looked down on our house naked and, above all, that she did so to keep her head down between relatives.
And I suddenly realized that my mom doesn’t really care about my status at this “my wedding.” She’s more concerned about one thing than her face.
I was in a state of desolation.
I am. I’m sorry.
My mom cried and said she was hurting me.
I think it’s funny: “What’s the problem?” I’m married to Li Sung. I was a high-class man.
Well, that’s the high price. If you don’t want to be with me, I will.
“To not marry, or to find another Feng to marry…”
My mother was in a hurry to interrupt me.
Gas. I’m sorry.
In the end, my wedding was done with my uninvolved participation.
Lee Sung is very proud of giving me a big wedding.
But as far as I’m concerned, I feel like I’m just playing “new.”
“Mother” tool man.
After the marriage, LEE Sung and I went back home once.
At the end of the day, he invited his relatives to dinner and returned the following day. Because he doesn’t like me.
Old water, diarrhea.
I didn’t even have time to take him to my grandmother’s grave.
I’m very unhappy. But my mother spoke for Lee Sung: “You shouldn’t have gone to the grave since you were married.
Lee. With that intention, it’s the same as seeing your grandmother at dawn next year. I’m sorry.
And it’s easy for her to be on Lee Sung’s side for a short time, because of Lee Sung-sung.
Every relative of my mother’s has prepared a generous gift for my nephew.
A big red bag.
This makes my mother look so good and thinks that Lee Sung is very sweet and “uphill.”
LEE Sung slept all the way back to Beijing.
He didn’t wake up until the high iron drove south, but he said, “The air is everywhere.
Not as comfortable as home. I’m sorry.
I look at the sky, covered with fog, and I see nothing but speech.
4
My wedding made me realize that my old self and Luo Xiaomoon were actually wrong.
It is also difficult for women to establish themselves in this city by marriage alone.
In my marriage with Lee Sung, I was a tool, and I was easily replaced.
If LEE Sung divorces me, I’ll just have to get out of here.
And the only thing that can make me feel safe is maybe my job. Do I regret it?
It was clear earlier.
I started working harder. My immediate daughter is more satisfied with me.
One day she called me to the office and asked, “When are you going to have a baby?” I’m sorry.
After she got married, my mother-in-law gave birth several times, but each time she was married to Li Sung
He didn’t want to bother him so early.
Life.
I’ve been thinking about my career, and I haven’t thought about having a baby, so I’m happy to see Lee.
Get in front of me.
We said, “I have no intention of having children for a short time. I’m sorry.
The woman leader threw me a project book: “Well, I can trust you to hand it over.
There you go. I’m sorry.
I opened the project book.
That’s enough for my résumé to shine and my salary.
Double the project.
My eyes are shining.
And I said, “Thank you for your leadership, I will do well.” I’m sorry.
The woman leader was very pleased with my decision: “I see you well.” I’m sorry.
But just as I was squirting my fists and preparing for a big fight, I realized I meant it.
She’s pregnant. Sitting in the toilet, staring at two bars on the pregnancy rod, and I was thinking.
I remember that at the beginning of the month, LEE Sung and I had sex without security.
Second.
At the time, Li Sung said he wanted to try not to feel T.
I didn’t agree, but I couldn’t hold Lee Sung’s soft and hard bubble.
He even got a little angry when he turned his back and said, “It’s all right.”
I can’t do it again. What’s the point of this marriage? I’m sorry.
At the time, I thought that day was just after the end of my aunt’s life.
It’s not that big? It’s not gonna hold.
Because it’s too much trouble for me to fight with Lee Sung or to fight with him.
Now, please, I’d rather compromise once.
Anyone who’s ever been married knows that.
Back home, just to be completely relaxed.
An emotional game, too tired.
But at this point, I regret that my intestines are blue.
My first reaction was not to tell LEE, but Luo Xiaozuki.
I said, “Is it possible to beat the child without Li Sung knowing? Lorraine thinks I’m crazy. She says if I don’t want to get divorced, I have to tell Lee.
Done.
“Don’t you always want children? Tell him what you’re afraid of. I’m sorry.
I can only laugh.
Because my instincts tell me that Li Sung is not my ally in this matter.
FRIEND.
If I say I want to beat the kid up, Lee will blow up.
“Shelly, are you crazy? This is a kid. You said you’d fight? I’m sorry.
I tried to tell him the truth and reason.
First of all, the kid came unexpectedly, and neither of us had a mental nor a physical problem.
The preparation of the child does not conform to the principle of eugenicity;
Secondly, my career is on the rise, when having children is tantamount to self-defeating;
Third, the most important thing is that after giving birth, Lee loses himself.
By.
“Tell me nothing else, just the fish. What kind of fish do you want?
Just buy any fish. When the baby’s born, the baby’s milk is not wet, it’s all for money. You do it.
For Dad, it has to be half. You still have fish? I’m sorry.
Yes, since we got married, Lee Sung has proposed that we split our finances and make our own.
Flowers.
“We don’t have a mortgage to pay, we don’t have any big expenses. I don’t make much of you, but it’s like I take advantage of you. I’m sorry.
Despite the soundness of Li’s words, in practice the so-called splitting of flowers becomes — I bear the bulk of the household’s public expenses, and Li has to pay only for his personal life.
I understand what Lee Sung means. After all, he’s out of the house and the car, and I’m on top of other expenses, just to be fair.
I have no objection to this.
So I had a prenup and I didn’t tell him. It doesn’t matter if I pay back my mortgage at the house before I get married.
But it’s all in the absence of children.
With a baby, I’m not alone. LEE Sung won’t be able to tell you.
It’s probably the last one that moved LEE Sung to agree to my plan to get rid of my child.
But before we got to the hospital, we had dinner at my mother-in-law’s this weekend, and I just got in the kitchen and I got sick of the smoke.
That makes her guess I’m pregnant.
Grandma was surprised to figure out where to go to the hospital. I signaled Li Sung to tell Grandma about our plans.
But Lee Sung pretends not to see.
I had to say to myself, “We are not going to have this child.” I’m sorry.
She’s got a green face, and she says, “Is that what you mean, or is that what Lily meant?
Si? I’m sorry.
As I expected, Lee Sung-sung was on the run.
Increase. I’m sorry.
I’m disappointed.
That’s why I didn’t want to tell Li Sung from the beginning.
Now I’ve basically figured out Lee Sung’s spirit.
As a young master who grew up without any pressure, he was most afraid of Ma.
Boring.
He acted on the sole principle of trying not to get himself into trouble.
For Lee Sung, it’s a problem for my mother-in-law without knowing.
But with my mother-in-law’s knowledge, it’s harder to get rid of a child.
He can’t be on my side. My mother-in-law said, “We’re serious people. We can’t do this.
Something bad. This child must stay. I’m sorry.
I can’t argue with my mother-in-law. I can only go home to Li Sung’s theory.
I asked Li Sung: “Do you think you are mature enough to be responsible for a life? I’m sorry.
Lee Sung-hoon asked me: “I want a room, a car, a car, a baby.
No more?
I said, “How much are you going to pay to raise a child?” I’m sorry.
Lee Chengton lives, and after a while he says, “Money and money.
You lost your money, didn’t you? I’m sorry.
I’m calm: “The child is a walker. I don’t mean to have a baby.
He was born, and he didn’t need money! Now you earn that.
If I lose my job again, our children.
Did you grow up drinking the northwest wind? I’m sorry.
I said that for a reason.
When I got married, I knew that Li Seong’s time was running out of real money.
Yeah.
He’s paid $10,000 a month, but tens of millions of equipment and fish buy it.
Don’t blink.
Last month, one of his fairies died, so he went back to one.
F, I ask for price, good guy, one for $3,000. And this is only one of those expenses.
A while ago, he was fascinated by the tropical rainforest and spent over $10,000 on his own.
A jar, but still yelling about dissatisfaction.
If it hadn’t been for the house, he’d have spent five or six for just one.
Ten thousand.
It’s like spending money.
He doesn’t spend my money, but he doesn’t think about it at work.
Low-profile, low-profile leadership. More than he did.
All the colleagues had been promoted and he remained in his original position.
Said he wasn’t happy.
“Shelly, don’t be so vulgar. And you don’t want to think if I care about promotion,
Did you take the fall for it?”
LEE Sung’s “pot” for me was before we were together.
At the time, he was in the business unit of my company.
I got the data wrong because of a job error. When he found out, he took the fall in front of his leader.
I was wrong about myself, so I was not blamed by company leaders.
And so we both have a further chance.
I do thank Li Sung for that. But it still makes me feel uncomfortable when he talks about things in this way.
And when I didn’t speak, he took pride in it: “If I hadn’t taken the fall for you, I might have been promoted.” I’m sorry.
LEE Sung, I have nothing to say.
And if he is only a companion, surely he is a companion of ease.
But how do you expect him to carry the burden of supporting his family and become a qualified father?
Lee Sung thinks that these are all excuses for me: “Shelly, don’t tell me this mess.” You don’t want to have children, or because you’re selfish and you don’t want to be a mother. My mom’s right. This kid has to stay. You can fight. I’m sorry.
I looked at him wrongly and I didn’t think he could say “divorce” so easily.
But what hurts is behind it: “Don’t keep your career in your mouth all day.” You don’t want to think about it. If you don’t want to have a baby, I’ll marry you! I’m sorry.
I ran away that night.
Lee Sung didn’t stop me.
I can’t believe I feel more free and safe than ever in the bedroom where I lie in a small apartment of 50 squares from the south. This is my home.
I said to Luo Xiaomoon, “I intend to divorce my child, and I have had enough of this shameful life.” I’m sorry.
Lorraine didn’t talk for a while.
“When you married Li Sung, you knew that you were a man of dignity. Now, you’re gonna have to figure out, though it seems like you’ve been doing a good job lately, but in Beijing, you can’t be out of work any other day. I’m sorry.
The fortress of liberty and security that I have just built for myself has collapsed halfway through the words of Luo Xiaomoon.
I know she’s right, but I can’t convince myself to go back to Lee Sung.
Good thing my mother-in-law found me soon.
She knows the consequences of my fight with Lee Sung and has come up with her solution:
“I know that Lee Sung is immature and has a little bit of a heart to play. That’s because the conditions we created for him from childhood to age were too good and easy. When you have a child, you put pressure on him to learn to take responsibility.
“As for your concerns about your work, Mom can give you a ticket here: You just give birth to the baby, and Mom will bring it to you, and you will never let the baby interfere with your work. I’m sorry.
LEE Sing finally apologized to me under the pressure of her mother-in-law and promised to start every month
I’ll pay you $3,000 to raise my child.
I went home with Lee Sung.
It’s a job. It’s a shame to tell the woman. But I promise I won’t.
Pregnancy delays her work.
The woman leader says it’s a lie to be disappointed in me, but she’s the same woman who’s willing to give it to her.
I have a chance.
“It’s a very important project in your hands, and if you delay it, you can’t keep it.
You. I’m sorry.
I made myself clear and worked harder.
The baby in the belly was very good.
Besides, I have almost no other early pregnancy response.
That’s it. It didn’t delay me spending the night with my colleagues.
Bad, I ended up in the hands of a tooth-biting general.
But the baby almost died.
I saw Red in four months and I was in the hospital for a week.
Lee Sung complained about my selfishness, didn’t put the baby first, even asked me to resign. Of course I won’t. He’s with me again.
But this time I am uncompromising.
The mother-in-law finally taught him a lesson before he stopped.
And I’m glad I didn’t quit.
Mid-Autumn home party, the Lee Sung family reunion.
Li Seong talked to me in private, and asked me to make one of the jaguars I made at dinner the previous year.
Son.
“Do you think it’s right for me to cook with a big belly? At this point,
Why don’t you worry about the baby? I’m sorry.
LEE Sung asked me to say, “I thought the doctor said it was okay.
I let you show your hand in front of everyone. I’m sorry.
“I don’t need this gold. Come on, you didn’t do it for your own sake! I’m sorry.
Even though I stole Lee Sung-hoon, I ended up cooking, but I didn’t make coke.
Son, it’s a simple mix.
The gravy is home to the whole family, and I’m so proud.
Lee Sung’s flaunted heart is satisfied with me.
That night, when he came back to our own home, he had the pleasure of squeezing my back. I was so comfortable with him, so I woke up and thought, “Maybe.
It’s good to be alive. I’m sorry.
Six.
It’s my mother-in-law who’s working with someone she knows.
I have to say, it’s a good thing to marry locals.
But when I had a baby, my mother-in-law listened to the Internet’s so-called come-and-go advice.
Let the doctor beat me painless.
LEE Sung also listened to Grandma and refused to sign the painless anesthesia list.
I was lying in the waiting room, and I felt so bad I had to hit the wall with my head.
A lamb to slaughter.
The difficulties of the production process need not be repeated. After a day and a night, I was born.
My baby.
It’s a girl who looks just like me.
Women’s maternity is so strange. Before I gave birth, I was afraid of having children.
Life after that.
But when I’m exhausted, with my little daughter in my arms, I feel like a beating.
Winning heroine.
I do not know yet that the war of life has just begun. Before giving birth, my female leader asked me who would take care of the child and whether to recommend a sister-in-law to me.
I told him that my mother-in-law had told me that she had asked for 26 days and that she would take over on the 27th day.
And when the female leader laughed, “The mother-in-law’s mouth, a liar.” Anyway, one month after delivery, you’re gonna have to start giving me that test. I’ll give you a promotion without proof. I’m sorry.
I wasn’t too naive at the time, but I thought at the time that outsiders would be less careful with their children. It was reported that some black-hearted sisters also secretly gave their children sleeping pills in order to put them to sleep.
And in Beijing, even if you’re to be a mother-in-law for eight to six nights, it’s gonna cost $78,000 a month.
I decided to let my mother-in-law take care of the baby. Big deal, New Year’s Eve. I’ll seal her a big red bag.
The sister-in-law of Moon, who paid 15,000 to do her utmost, spent three meals a day, eating nothing but food.
The day before she left our house, I called LEE Sung too busy.
And I’m almost back on my weight before I was born, and Lee is fat.
On the whole, the first 26 days after I was discharged from the hospital, I was almost spared.
I’ve been through a lot of problems like milking.
The children are fine.
On the 27th day of my release from the hospital, my sister-in-law was taken away with tears.
The mother-in-law travels at home with a healthy pace, working at noon and making a single one.
LEE Sung didn’t come back at night, and she couldn’t wait to see her lunch meal and food, and said it was a shame to throw it away, or make me a new dish at night.
Looking at the food left in the pot, I said it was a waste.
So I cleaned the leftovers with Grandma.
On the 28th day, the child started crying in the afternoon. Me and my mother-in-law are in a lot of trouble.
At 7:00 p.m., LEE Sing came home from work and her mother-in-law said he was back from work as if she had seen the saviour.
Then, without saying more, he went home.
At 10:30 p.m., when the child was crying the most, Li Seng said with his eyes that he was too tired to take a day off and went to bed with ear plugs.
On the 29th day, the term ” woman leader” was used. Grandma called and told LEE Sung that she’s in pain.
I asked Li Sung: “Is Mom serious? Have you gone to the hospital?”
Lee Cheng replied: “Mom said no need to go to the hospital, old sickness, just rest for a few days. I’m sorry.
A week later, I asked Li Sung: “Is Grandma baby better? Can you bring the kids sometimes? The intestines, the tears of day and night, and you’re going to work, I can’t eat it alone. I’m sorry.
“Mom says it’s going to take two more days.” I’m sorry.
“When will she come?” “I’m patient in asking.
The baby was in my arms while eating milk and stenching.
“She didn’t say that. I can’t force her to come? Lee Sung’s eyes were chasing his fairyfish and never heard the baby shit.
I’m not happy with Lee Sung-sung because of his post-partum endocrine disorders.
I blame him, “Do you have any sense of fatherhood? With the baby, you go home and you get free time to raise fish flowers! Even the baby shits! I’m sorry.
He looked at me, and he said, “Shelley, don’t worry about it. I’m not home during the day. You can handle it alone. How come when I get back, you start directing me and me?
I’m very busy at work. I’m tired. I just want to sit here and see.
My fish, what did I do to you? I’m sorry.
I’m so pale, I can’t believe it.
I can’t imagine which line to start with.
He was a reasonable man and let me make it clear that it was a waste of time to refute.
The first thing to do is wash the baby’s ass and make it comfortable.
I went to the bathroom with my baby in black.
While washing the baby’s ass, I thought, “Was my marriage wrong?”
But when I cleaned up that tub again, I thought it had brought me a lot of luck.
Fook, I thought, “Well, maybe it’s just like marriage. You get it, you lose it.
Some.
But I decided to continue with my theory with Lee Sung.
I don’t own this house. I don’t own children.
When I came out of the bathroom with the baby, there were no more people near the fish tank.
Shadow, the door was closed.
Apparently, Li Sung started avoiding me.
The week after that, Lee came back from work every day and hid in the name of work.
Down. He came home from work at night and I stopped asking him to help with the baby.
A week later, when he saw me not to bother him any more, he snuck out from the second and began to reward the fish.
I had no hope for Lee, so I looked at him a little, and as long as he did not cause me trouble, I would be grateful.
But when I had just convinced myself to accept him so “imperfect,” one morning, LEE Sung went to bed before he went to work and kissed the baby several times, causing the baby to wake up crying.
Lee Sung-hoon, shut the door and run away.
The rest of me with black eyes, hugged and milked for more than half an hour before the baby fell asleep.
7
Lee Sung can’t count on it any more.
I can only hope my mother-in-law’s waist will heal soon.
But the sixth sense tells me my mother-in-law might not be able to count on it either.
Although every day I send a video of the baby in the family, every one of them is evaluated; every time I tweet about her waist, she answers in time. But I can feel that she’s sending me a message in silence: “The waist is not good enough for me.”
I can’t bring the baby yet.
This is for more than a month.
The baby was two months old.
I can’t get a test. I can’t get a test.
I couldn’t sleep all night.
I didn’t mean to ask my mom for help.
But I’m sure my mother would like to take care of her eldest son and grandson.
By rejecting.
I had to open my mouth and ask my mother-in-law for help.
I did a couple of psychological work, and I called my mother-in-law in the afternoon when a baby fell asleep.
Microphones.
A few sounds, Grandma didn’t answer.
My heart is squeezing with the bell.
Almost when I was about to give up, Grandma answered.
I’m relieved and I’m going to change my voice.
How is it? I’m sorry.
She laughed, “Okay, don’t worry! Where’s our baby? Show Grandma. I’m sorry.
I went straight to the theme: “Baby, go to sleep. If your waist is better, can you help me with the baby? I said I’d take three months’ maternity leave and I’d have to take a test and I’d never go back to school.”
She was laughing, but she interrupted my speech: “Ah, it’s hard for you to take maternity leave and think about work. It’s hard! I’m sorry.
I thought, in that context, my mother-in-law should have told me when she was coming to bring the baby.
Who knows what she’s saying, and I’m sorry to say, “I was going to help you bring your child to three.” But I don’t like my back. I went to the community hospital this morning, and Dr. Wang of Pernaco said, “You can’t get tired, let alone bring your kids.” I’m sorry.
And she went on to say, “A lady who was in line with me, having learned about our situation, said to me, “It’s better to have her bring her children in this situation.” She also said that it was usually the grandmother who brought the children. I’m sorry.
Dude, what a community doctor said.
Another unknown old lady gave specific guidance to our family.
Let me be stupid and understand that this is what my mother-in-law herself has announced to me through the mouth of others.
I’m groaning, I’m groaning, I’m hoping for one percent, and I’m ready to try it again.
But Grandma won’t give me a chance:
“I don’t really agree with these grandmothers. Who says the grandmother has to bring the baby? But when I think of it, if I take my kids and wear your back out, you and Lee are going to work, you’re going to have to take care of the kids and you’re going to have to take care of me. So, Lilly, Mom’s gonna have to talk to you about it, so please ask your mom to come and bring the kids. So we’ll all be relieved. I’m sorry.
Put the phone down, I’ve had a moment and my whole head is empty.
Until the child’s waking-up cry calls me back to reality.
When Lee Sung came home at night, I asked him if his mother was going to do this earlier.
He said no, but he understood and was willing to respect his mother ‘ s choice.
It doesn’t matter if my mother-in-law and Lee Sung spoke in advance. My eyebrow is on fire, and my children need adult full-time day care.
It took me three days to interview seven mothers-in-law, but I still don’t know which one to choose.
I can’t accept that.
But I can’t take it anymore. On the night of the fourth day of my collapse, my mother suddenly called me and let me…
To introduce the son of a distant relative.
If it was before, I’d tell my mom I didn’t have a way of doing it, and then I’d go.
Speed found a reason to hang up.
But that day I was so devastated.
I told my mother on the phone that my mother-in-law couldn’t bring my children.
I didn’t expect my mother to say she was coming to bring me the baby.
I just wish she could comfort me.
But you know what my mom told me after hearing this?
My mother said, “Don’t expect me to bring you children!” I’m going to the pit.
Make money! I’m sorry.
Listening to her, first I felt cold, then I lost my mind: it was me.
Mom, never gives me any hope of life.
It’s probably the way of the world.
I suddenly thought of a way to get my mother to help me with the baby.
And I’m sure my mom would agree.
That’s — I pay her every month.
With $3,000 a month’s pay, my mom’s working hard, not for the baby and me.
Not at all.
I found out for the first time that all my hard work had been wasted.
That’ll buy my mom for $3,000.
Most importantly, of course, I found out that $3,000 can buy my comfort.
I’ll just have to fuck a little more than giving the baby to a strange sister-in-law.
The heart, it’s just my mother’s re-emphasizing of some of the current parenting.
Moreover, $3,000 is less than half the price of a working-age wife.
That’s my mother’s number for 3,000.
When she learned that I wanted to hire her, she said first, less than 3,000.
My mom came and took over all the housework and the day-time baby.
I just need to take the baby to bed after work.
It both assures me and my baby a close relationship and gives me other time to run.
Your own career.
So I quickly passed the certificate and returned to work.
I’ve had some bumps when I got promoted, but I’d like to add that.
The pay is up to 20,000 after taxes. So, every month, my hard money is 5,000 for small apartments, for my mom.
For 3,000, the child is paid a fixed cost of 2,000 and the family is paid a living allowance of 3,000.
LEE Sing paid me $3,000 a month for childcare, and every month, I finally got it.
Ten grand down.
So soon I’ll be able to pay Luo Xiaozuki’s money back.
Life seems to be moving in the direction of prosperity.
But there’s one question that’s been on my mind for a long time: income now.
I’ve grown, I’ve lost my child, why do I still feel like I’m doing it?
Ten times more tired before we get married?
The answer to that question was that I tried to fight Lee Sung again, but I didn’t.
After that, it jumped into my head.
I came home late that day, and the moment I walked in, I found it wrong.
My mom was in the main bedroom, crying baby, and Lee Sung was lying in front of the living room fish tank.
What. Nobody came out to meet me.
“What’s wrong with the baby?”
Crying so hard?”
Lee Sung told me: “Your daughter is a good girl!” Pour all the fish in the jar! You’re angry.
People are not angry! I’ve got room for her, so she’s all that’s left! I said…
She’s crying! I’m sorry.
He’s a father, but he’s mad at his first-year-old. I don’t know which line to start with.
I rushed into the room to appease the baby.
After comparing my mother and Lee Sung, the situation was as follows:
The baby who’s learning to play with Lee Sung. But Li Sung was looking at the fish.
Ride the baby. The baby’s anxious to get Li Sung’s attention.
Look, take the fish and feed the fish. But the baby’s too small, and the lid on the fish food box isn’t buttoned.
Tight, the baby’s pouring into the fish tank. Lee Sung was so angry and yelled at the baby.
Two sentences. The baby crashed and cried.
Since my mom arrived, she’s moved into the main bedroom, Li Sung, and he’s got a lot of nerve that night.
Like sleeping in the living room.
I lay in bed alone in the night with a sleeping baby, the question that haunts me.
The answer to the question is no answer:
Widowhood, and LEE Sung being a big boy.
Get up, I can’t breathe.
At 12 am, I realized that this man I married was a man who never met.
In all respects, you can count as a good man; but once something happens, where?
I’m afraid it’ll be a total disappointment to me.
When I was sad for myself, the baby seemed to know I was sad.
“Mommy.”
Then I turned around and held my arm to sleep. A woman with a child should know that for a mother,
Best placebo.
If you want to find the only thing you don’t regret about marrying Lee Sung, you’ll have my treasure.
Bo.
Even if the baby was my one-man baby.
9
After that day, Lee Sung and I began a cold war.
He slept in the living room for days to announce his dissatisfaction with me and the baby.
I think he’s being ridiculous, but if he’s just doing this to me, I’m lazy.
We have to fight with him. Let’s clean each other up.
But he did it to the baby, it made me unbearable.
Saturday morning, Lee Sung was waiting for his fish tank.
When the baby saw it, he jumped over and asked Daddy to hold the fish.
If this is the time when he picks up the baby and talks, I’m ready to go.
With him and well.
But he couldn’t bear to put his body on his side and let the baby throw an air.
Get her out of here. Can’t you see I’m busy? I’m sorry.
The baby didn’t get the hug she wanted and cried disappointedly. I asked my mother to pack up what she used to do: “We don’t bother people at home anymore. I’m sorry.
As we left, Lee was watching, looking at the certainty of “Where else would you go without this house.”
He didn’t know I had an apartment outside of Shelly’s. That’s my way back.
We settled down in my apartment, the baby changed places, was very excited and quickly adapted.
She was not close to Lee Sung, and she never said anything about her father, except when she first came to see him.
It was my mother who cried all day long: “You’re too temperamental. If you move out like this, he’ll divorce you. I’m sorry.
“Let’s just leave.” * I hold the baby so sure for the first time *
It’s the baby, it’s the house, it’s the bottom of my job.
Lee Sing sent me a few tweets about the gradual transition from “You can never come back” to “You can come back”
But I’ve been ignoring him.
A week after moving into my apartment, I’ve kind of fallen in love with my life — and I find that there’s no way that Lee Sung has actually made a difference in my life.
But a week later, I came home from work and found Lee Sung sitting in the living room of my apartment.
He had a nice plate of fruit in front of him and my mom and the baby didn’t know where to go.
Apparently, this is my mom’s masterpiece.
Lee Sung-sung’s face isn’t very good, as he says: “I had to go home to find my way back. Why don’t you explain to me what happened to this house? I’m sorry.
I sat down and picked out an apple and put it in my mouth: “I bought the house before I was married, and the loan was always with me, and I felt I could not explain it to you. I’m sorry.
“You have a room and you don’t tell me it’s hiding your prenup! I’m sorry.
“So you know now, what do you want? I’m tired. I don’t want to fight with you. If you want a divorce, we’ll leave. I’m sorry.
“Divorced? “You’re not afraid I’ll split your house?” I’m sorry.
“This house loan is 5,000 a month, split equally, 2,500 a month, and we’re married for two years. I’ll give you 60,000. I’ll take the baby. I don’t want the rest. I’m sorry.
Lee Sung probably didn’t think I’d say that at all. But what I’m saying is true.
After a week of divorce from Lee Sung, I only lose $3,000 a month.
Won, I can’t afford it.
LEE Sing said, “It’s impossible. I’m sorry.
And then he ran away, without saying anything and without saying anything.
Soon after, my mother came back with the baby and saw Lee Sing go.
“You really want to divorce Lee Sung? Lee Sung-sung, he’s not just playing.
You can’t take it for the baby. I’m sorry.
I look at the baby’s eyes and my heart is soft. If it wasn’t for the baby, I…
I’m sure I’ll get a divorce from Lee Sung, but now that I have a baby, I can’t do much for her.
Think.
I said to my mother, “Don’t worry. He won’t leave me.
I’m sure he wants to go down. I just wanted to break him up and let him know.
It’s not like I’m the same. I’m sorry.
When my mom saw that I didn’t really want to get divorced, she took it down and complimented me.
Yes, you’re now earning him twice as much as that prism. I’m sorry.
I didn’t mention the divorce as I expected.
For days, he left work and came to my apartment to stay with the baby.
The baby hasn’t had so much love since birth.
Not at all.
LEE Cheng asked the baby: “Mom’s house is too small, let’s go home to Dad. I’m sorry.
The baby doesn’t understand what Lee Sung means. Turn around and look at me.
And I said: Ask Daddy, is that Daddy’s or the baby’s? If it’s Dad’s, Mom won’t go back. If it’s the baby’s, Mom will go back. I’m sorry.
The baby turns around and looks at Lee Sung.
Lee Sing was in a hurry to say, “Hey, Dad was wrong, Dad meant to take the baby home to our common house and watch the fish. I’m sorry.
When it comes to fish, the baby’s excited.
That night, Li Sung picked us up.
In the car, I inevitably thought of Li Sung’s jar ring on my finger the day he proposed.
Now, that canal is the best footnote of our marriage, easy, convenient, easy.
Maybe it’s not just us. Maybe most of the current marriages are like this.
At the outset, we have been working hard to find a diamond that is stale and persistent. But it’s often only an easy jar ring that can be worn.
We’re not perfect for each other. The reason for the absence of divorce is simply that there is a slight need for the other party. This allows us to continue to fit down and pretend that the jar ring on our hands is a rough and persistent diamond. Good thing between me and Lee Sung and the baby.
The baby is the diamond of our marriage.
In the night, I looked at the asleep face of my baby and laughed.
Thank you for reading. Special declaration: this document contains an artistic processing component.
The story is a semi-fictional one, and the story is a non-existent one.
Do not mark, mark and mark. I’m not sure.
## Superman of Manchurn Temple
