Do you regret marrying your current husband?
Prior to the marriage, he graduated from school, was born in Beijing, and appeared clean and clean as a small head of State.
After the marriage, he told me, “In my heart, mother is number one, father is number two, son is number three, you are only number four…”
When I got pregnant, my family told me, “Don’t worry, we won’t work, we’ll raise you, we’ll have children, we’ll take the money, don’t worry.” I’m sorry.
“My mom says that our young people like to spend money together, they can’t save it, they can’t keep it. I’m sorry.
But I put up with it until one day, my mother-in-law had a little meeting with him.
The bathroom vertebrae’s broken. If you see it, change the light bulbs, fix the toilet, you’ll have to have three men. I’m sorry.
Oh, three men at home.
I didn’t think I’d get married for 10 years, but I’ve been “transformed” by a light bulb.
Why did you put on a wedding dress with such a man and slept in a bed?
One.
The husband was a blind friend, and she did her best to recommend:
“The group, Hu Jin is the new kid from our unit. He’s a good-looking kid and a local Beijing guy. We’re looking for the locals. We’ve got two families together. I’m sorry.
The first time I saw you, the Zhao group of a bit of a physical association, did not look like Hu.
He’s 27 years old, wearing a pair of pairs of shirts and jeans, and he’s incorrigible, with white skin. One more pair of old frame glasses would be exactly the same as the nerds in the middle school class.
The only thing that impressed Zhao is:
It’s as white as your new white shoes.
The parents of the regiment are typical old teachers, with a special preference for high-performing students, and they are very fond of the Zhu Tian who graduated from the prestigious university.
The parents are low-income, small-scale businesses, and there are no “cultural people” at home. We’ll get married!
The Zhao regiment felt very confused and put on white veils and had been given a certificate and slept in a bed.
At this point, it was only six months before the Zhao Regiment met.
The Zhao regiment thought it would be lucky to have a date and hit the target.
Two.
After the wedding, two people went to Egypt for a honeymoon.
It’s early morning, it’s 2 a.m., it’s dark in the living room, and the Zhao group turned on the lights and screamed: “Ah! I’m sorry.
“Alas, the troupe is frightened, and I fear that the light will not come on. Look, this is the fruit I cut and washed, and the tea I made, waiting for you and the day to come back.” She smiled with a smile.
The Zhao group can’t help but say, “What’s the matter with you?” But when we got married and we were older, we had to laugh and laugh:
“Thank you, Mom. It’s too late. You’ve worked so hard. I’m sorry.
“It’s not hard, it’s worth everything for you and his father. Come sit down and change your shoes. I’ll wash them. Tomorrow you’ll wear new ones again. I’m sorry.
Without waiting for Zhao to say no, the mother-in-law quickly returned to her house with two small shoes.
Yes, the Zhao Regiment and Grandma live across the street.
It is a matter of concern that the Zhao group is free to breathe air for the rest of its life.
You’re so used to it.
“Are you not used to being so sweet? I told you my mom was very hard-working, and my mom was very smart about shoes and clothes. I’m sorry.
Zhao immediately remembered the first time she met, the white shoes on her feet, the good guy, she thought it was a clean man, but she didn’t think it was his mother.
I thought my mother was clean, and my son couldn’t be so close…
But it turns out that Mom likes to be clean and that his son is usually lazy.
After the marriage, Hu came to two new places every day to report, clean up housework and help purchase household goods. On the way to the buying, he said:
“I bought it for my daughter-in-law. She loves beef! I’m sorry.
“My daughter-in-law is a knowledgeable family, and the vegetables are organic. These are four packs of authentic Egyptian tampons!” I’m sorry.
As soon as they saw Zhao, they envied themselves:
“Your mother-in-law is very fond of you. She can give you anything.” Be good to her! I’m sorry.
The Zhao Regiment suddenly had a feeling of bitterness.
Grandma’s good for herself, but she doesn’t have to go all the way to the district and the 8th Aunt, right? Now he’s afraid to say she’s not, or he’s a white-eyed wolf.
Soon, the Zhao group became pregnant and the whole family boiled again.
The mother-in-law’s care has been upgraded:
“Don’t worry, if you don’t want to work, you don’t have to work, we’ll raise you, as long as you have kids, the money, we’ll take care of it. I’m sorry.
The Zhao Regiment did not listen to these words, but she seems to have been treated as the Queen Mother.
In the fridge, Grandma bought stuff full of stuff. Monopoly and sea cucumbers are provided without interruption.
Zhao’s two small days and she’s got her thighs in her mouth and her chest.
“We’re lucky, I’m no match for your sister-in-law! I’m sorry.
The Zhao Gang resigned from the work of the State Enterprise and remained in good health.
Two months later, his son was born, and the Zhao were immersed in the joy of being a mother.
But what I didn’t know was that on her first day, she was in trouble.
4
That day, Mother Hu deliberately called out the hysteria, about an hour later and came back.
As soon as he got home, he locked his head. The Zhao regiment thought something was going on.
“What happened? What happened? I’m sorry.
“Mom said we can’t put our money together. I’m sorry.
What does that mean? The Zhao Regiment did not respond at all.
“My mother says that we young people, who love to spend money, can’t save money, but we can keep our money together. “I don’t think my mother makes any sense.
“What do you care? I don’t have a job, I don’t have an income, how can I control myself? What about the kids’ expenses? Milk powder and urine are expensive. Zhao is not aware of her actions.
“That’s a good thing. My mom said, “I’ll take care of the kid’s money. She’ll pay for it. You don’t care about your own money. “It’s not easy to explain.
“I care about myself? What, I’m not your daughter-in-law? Didn’t I tell you that you don’t care if you marry a man and get dressed and eat? Zhao’s speech is full of cynicism.
“I didn’t say no, but the times are different, and our aunts say that women can do the best! I’m sorry.
The Zhao group really wanted to beat the man to death, but the fights only got worse and she decided to adopt the Huairou policy, and she softened her breath:
“Honey, usually a man in his family earns money for a woman, and I don’t have a job right now. I’m sorry.
The Zhao group thought it was a show, put its hands around her husband ‘ s arm, looked like a little woman and threw its eye at each other.
“Honey, if that’s what you think, why don’t you treat me like a woman so I don’t give you money? I’m sorry.
“Aah?”
The Zhao are staring at me. I’d say I’m a woman for not paying my wife!
“What the hell! “She shouted, but before she said anything, she heard her son’s cry. Come on, let’s not fight. Let’s start with the kids.
The next day, when he left work, he saw the Zhao group sit on the couch without saying a word, and he didn’t look at himself.
“Honey, don’t be mad, I’ve talked to Mom, and I’m not going to give you my wife, and she promised me to give you $3,000 a month for living in a writer. I’m sorry.
After that, there’s a look waiting to be praised.
The Zhao clan’s got a bit of a mouthful.
“Oh, my God, you’re so generous. I’m sorry.
“3 grand, you think I’m enough for the kids, right? I’m sorry.
The Zhao group asked, and instead of waiting to answer the question, there was a “bong-bong” sound in the house.
“My God! Every day, your mother fainted! I’m sorry.
He jumped right off the door, ran across the door, fell straight below the ground, shivering and calling the first aid phone, and repeatedly pressed the button.
The Zhao regiment robbed the phone and called an ambulance.
Soon, the Hu family arrived at the hospital and, in the hours of rescue, whenever a doctor comes out, he goes up and asks:
“Doctor, where’s my mom? How’s my mom? I’m sorry.
After a while, Mother Hu was pushed out, and the doctor said that the patient was in bad condition and needed to be observed at the ICU, and the doctor’s hand was so tight that he said:
“Doctor, you have to save us. I’m sorry.
Hu stayed with me at ICU, was out there for days or days, and the Zhao Regiment told me:
“Honey, you have to look after yourself, and we have kids. I’m sorry.
The eyes of the sky are dimmed, the eyes blackened, the sprouted… and this man is so full of shit right now.
He licked his dry, broken lips:
“I didn’t think before, and now I understand that Mom and Dad are old and they’ll leave us first, and you and your son will stay with me longer, in my heart, first, father, second, son, third, you’ll be fourth…”
The Zhao Regiment really wanted to blow up the man’s head, but thought he might not be sober right now, and he didn’t talk. Just throw it in front of him and say:
“You eat, I’m going back. I’m sorry.
After more than two months of shock, Hu was discharged, but the body was paralysed, with only one hand to move, and access to the wheelchair, which, although not in its head, largely lost its language function.
It’s hard to talk about his mother in front of Zhao.
The dramatic changes in the body caused a sudden change in the temper of a previously smart and powerful mother, who often shouted and left without knowing how many nannys.
The Zhao regiment fed her food, and she threw up as soon as she wasn’t around. I can’t say a word about her because she was good to herself. As everyone knows, she says she is either a man or a woman who is not kind, so she can only see her mother-in-law as little as possible.
In the great business of caring for my mother, I’ll take care of my wife and son.
Since then, couples who had been married for more than a year have been separated in silence.
The Zhao Regiment was living with the children in their master’s bedroom and in the middle of nowhere.
The Zhao group has been trying to get a divorce from Hu Tian and has mentioned it twice in front of their parents.
‘Do not think about divorce, your mother-in-law is sick again, and take care of her as she should be, a good wife and a good mother, so take care of the child and lighten his burden.’ I’m sorry.
“Your parents and I used to love you too much, and your dad and I bumped into each other. I’m sorry.
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In their eyes, he was a great good man, caring for sick mothers, neither cheating nor gambling. As for the neglect of the wife and son, these, uh, Chinese families, how many wives and children have not been neglected by their husbands and fathers?
As for the long-term separation from her husband, let’s just say it’s impossible to kill the Zhao group.
The Zhao group can only sing two words:
Let it go, let it go.
Thus, after several years, his son had gone to elementary school and had his own small bedroom, he had never said that he would live with the Zhao Regiment, nor had he said that he would move back.
The only thing that can prove that their relationship exists is the sum of $3,000 in a drawer on the 15th of every month.
5
Recently, 3,000 dollars in the drawer was gone.
After his son Hu went to kindergarten, the Zhao group began to work and ate the loss of “no work, I raise you”, she understood deeply that money was the only way to live.
Today, the Zhao Regiment has jumped to a major Internet factory to be the head of the project, and is paid three times as much as any other. She doesn’t give a shit about the money in the drawer.
I didn’t wait for the Zhao to ask him, and he suddenly turned $30,000 to the Zhao, and the Zhao were happy: What happened?
After seven or eight days, three of them were eating dinner and said to their wives:
“I give you the money, you get it. The money is for the kids. I don’t have it. I’m sorry.
Zhao didn’t talk to him. Turn around and watch his son eat.
“Are you done? When you’re done, do your homework. Mom will check. “The Zhao group only spoke when the son entered the door and closed it:
“Put it on, Hu? Seventy-five thousand for his son’s summer camp, even if it’s AA, you won’t pay thirty thousand! And we agreed that my son’s money for school would be yours. I’ll take the study class. I’m sorry.
“I don’t care, but I can’t do it now. I have no money. “It’s very difficult to say anything.
“So you won’t even pay for 3,000? I’m sorry.
“You’re rich, I see you’re spending a lot of money. If your son’s camp is too expensive, go to a cheap one. I’ll tell you in advance. I don’t have enough money for the kids. I’m sorry.
It’s incredible to look at this Zhao Zhao Zhao Zhao, and she asks:
“What if I don’t have money?”
“There’s no money, there’s no money, there’s no money, there’s no money. I’m sorry.
The Zhao group was laughed:
“Oh, God, you’re saying that too. I’m sorry.
After that, the Zhao group left the table and went to the study room to see how his son was studying.
Look at the son of the silent homework, the side of his face and the scribble of a model. She doesn’t understand. If he’s a son, why don’t you love him?
No matter what, Hu needs to be educated. She paid the money for the summer camp, which was fully paid by the Zhao Regiment, and the school fees were paid by her.
The Zhao Regiment was helpless and knew that she cared about her child ‘ s education, that she died seven inches, and that she sometimes wanted to bet on the child, but after all, he was born, and he was so angry that she could not suffer.
What happens when you don’t give money.
On that day, when the Zhao regiment came home from work, it was discovered that the door was open and that the voice of his father and husband had been constantly heard:
“Dad, don’t worry. We’ll be fine. We’ll be working. I don’t have to go to private school. I can’t go to a public school for a year. I’ll make up for the $300,000 you need. I’m sorry.
“Son, Dad can only count on you. Your aunt’s $300,000 is here for me. I wanted to buy a fund, get some money for the souvenir. If I don’t give it to your aunt, she’ll have to fight me! You know Dad’s a decent man. You can’t worry your mother. I’m sorry.
“You’re doing it for your mother, and you have to watch your body. I’m sorry.
I don’t know.
The Zhao Regiment listens and guesses that the father and son in there cry about their headaches, that their father repents from his heart and that his son speaks softly.
At this point, she fully understood that Hu Tin was not her husband, that he was only the son of Hu’s mother, that she turned around and left the house.
If you’re only 25 years old at this time, go get drunk. But now she’s a 35-year-old woman. The Zhao group feels better when it comes to eating and eating.
She returned home, the door was closed and it appeared that the father and son had finished.
Open the lock, close the door.
In the restaurant, the husband is eating noodles. The Zhao Gang asked:
“Honey, you were number one in your heart, Dad was number two, son was number three, I was number four, right? I’m sorry.
♪ Swallow down and wipe your mouth and say ♪
“Yeah, ’cause Mom’s sick, Dad’s old, he’s young, you’re my wife, you’re a grown man, but I promise I’ll be good to you when you’re old. I’m sorry.
The Zhao group laughed and went back to the bedroom without saying anything.
“Aging? Jesus Christ, do you think we can really get old? I’m sorry.
It’s not possible to get old. It’s a question of whether the Zhao will survive.
Even if it survives, it’s either dying or being “a big belly of Myrfer” and it doesn’t matter.
When she was still thinking about it, the knocks pulled her back.
Open the door, and the old hu stands by it: “Don’t you all like the seaside? I’ve seen Sanya’s free trip. We traveled a few years ago. I’m sorry.
The annual leave of the Zhao Regiment has been reserved for his son Hu’s summer vacation. He had to take the children out to play, and suddenly he had to show up to the old ladies and the confusion in his heart.
Six.
At Sanya, the three members of the family played for two days, and were so distracted and so perplexed.
Zhao’s half-baked question:
“What’s wrong with you, Hu? Thinking about the beach beauty? It’s cold these days, but I can’t get down.
Water. I’m sorry.
It’s like a hyena.
“No, the weather in Hainan is good, the air is good enough for people to care for their sick and old age. I want to buy them a house on Sanya’s side, and my cousin doesn’t have a job to help me find another aunt. I’m sorry.
“What about you, not being a good son and a good son? I’m sorry.
“The plane’s convenient. I’ll fly over on Friday after work and get back on Sunday. “The ludicrous tone, from Beijing to Hainan, which is the distance from the door to the market, is so simple and casual.
“Where’s the money? You don’t have any money to pay for your kids, or for summer camp. Sanya’s house is not cheap. The Zhao Regiment is very calm, and she no longer wants to argue with the people.
I thought my wife was going to say yes.
“I thought your parents were going to Shanghai. Didn’t your family’s house keep renting and your parents didn’t marry? Why don’t we sell the house and buy it in Hainan? I’m sorry.
“…sell my house, buy your parents a house, whose name is it? Zhao Zhao Zhao Zhao Zhao Zhao Zhu Zhao Zhao Zhu Zhao Zhao Zhu Zhao Zhao Zhao Zhu Zhao Zhao Zhu Zhao Zhao Zhu Zhao Zhu Zhao Zhao Zhao Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhao Zhao Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhao Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu Zhu
“Of course it’s my parents’ names, they’re old, they’re paralyzed, they don’t write their names, they live in a state of discomfort. The Zhao group felt sorry for its nine-year compulsory education without giving up its life for Hu.
The Zhao Regiment is very grateful to his parents for the fact that his family had split up a few apartments and a lot of money, but his father and mother lived as intellectuals for the rest of their lives and hated seeing them in the eyes of a mobster and never talking to anyone about the demolition, so her family had five suites that she never knew.
I thought I’d be the Zhao and shut up.
“Good, good. “The chance of divorce is in my mind.
“I see, but the house belongs to my parents. I have to give me some time… The Zhao Regiment says and the rain is heavy.
“Give me time. Give me time. “Hurting his wife, kissing her.
A few days later, the Zhao Regiment was with the Hu Tin to watch the house in circles, and finally the Zhao were with his wife and children once.
When he returned to Beijing, the Zhao regiment became close to his mother-in-law and was designed to act in front of her aunts.
“Boo, this is the twilight nest I bought for my mother. I’m sorry.
“Ho, this is my specialty and meditating meds, so Mom’s got a good heart. If Mom’s not feeling well, I’ll study again! I’m sorry.
“Dad, I’ll be with you today, and I’ll push my mom down to the sun. I’m sorry.
When I got to the district garden, I watched my neighbor play chess, play poker, and the Zhao group smiled:
“Dad, go play, I’ll stay with Mom. I’m sorry.
How can you be free to play with a paralysing old lady?
In addition, the Zhao Regiment invites Hu’s chess buddies to play chess in their own homes and to take care of their mother-in-law in their homes, each time they buy health care, they also have one of them.
How could the Zhao Gang not know that: The mother-in-law acted as the boss of the family, and the father-in-law was the only one who had the money. The father-in-law had it in her hands and in the hands of a man.
To that end, she paid the public to travel, to spend money on the public, and to “prosecution” in front of the district’s geriatric ballrooms.
“Alas, Uncle Zhang, Aunt Wang, your old age is a great thing for you I am a public servant, and I urge him to come out and practice with you, but he can’t rest for my mother-in-law.” I said I quit my job just to take care of the old man. Uncle and Auntie, you have nothing to worry about. Oh, by the way, there’s a friend in the car who just gave it to me. I’ll get some for you. I’m sorry.
In a little while, the three or four elderly men, their uncles and aunts, each of them, had a box of tarts and tarts.
In the face of the chain, the Zhao Regiment has succeeded in winning the praise of the neighbourhood neighbours and relatives. Papa Hu is even better for her than his own son.
He’s happy, but he’s worried too:
“I heard Uncle Chang quit. It’s no money. How can you let a child go to school? I’m sorry.
“Honey, don’t worry, you’re right. Mom and Dad have a limited time and should be nice to them. After these six months, the Hu has been able to study the public sector, and the house is sold and buys Sanya’s house, and there is surplus. By the way, my mom’s sick. Do you have to mourn? You haven’t seen them in Shanghai once in all these years. I’m sorry.
“Condolences, condolences, I’m sorry for your parents. You’re so good to my parents, and I’m not so good at calling, but I can’t help it! I’ll go with you this time!”
Zhao Noded:
“Honey, I sold the house for you and Mom and Dad. I’m sorry.
The Zhao group continued:
“I sold the house for our parents, so you can transfer the house to Hu. My son owns the house. I’m sorry.
I’m laughing.
“Okay, give me my son, no problem! I’m sorry.
Soon, the Zhao Regiment took Hu Zheng to the house.
While the price of the Deutsche’s house was rising, he sold his flat, which was still being rented, and spent a small portion of his money on buying a small two-bedroom for his father-in-law.
The Zhao Regiment has a lot of cash in its hands, and the son’s name is a third in the northern ring.
7
Today, the Zhao regiment became a big red man in the family, for a long time inside the enemy, and she learned more secrets from Hu’s father:
“O Group, every day with his mother, too careful of you. After you got married, she bought a house to the east without telling you…”
“It’s all right, Dad. I don’t care. We pay for you and the $300,000. I’m sorry.
“Oh, that’s my fault, too. I’m sorry. I’m sorry.
“It’s okay, it’s okay, Dad. Here, it’s $10,000. I told Jagan that you’re going out alone for $1,500, which is our little secret. I’m sorry.
His father was so moved by his daughter-in-law’s big red bag and his tolerance, he was so anxious to collect the money, he was so sad.
After a few days, Papa Hu went on a trip. After her mother-in-law was taken care of by the Zhao Regiment, she returned to her home and packed her luggage, which was the end of the day. At night, I saw the living room packed with Zhao’s bags and asked:
“Are you going to Shanghai to see your parents? I haven’t taken a leave of absence…”
“Don’t take leave. You’ve been here for over two months. My mom’s sick. I’m sorry.
“Yes, yes, it’s not my mom’s house, it’s better if you talk about it. “I’ve never seen anything like it.”
“The house, I’ll say it. And, let’s get a divorce. I’ll take the child, you pay the monthly maintenance, and I don’t need five grand a month. Zhao Zhao’s wind is light, as it says today’s weather is cloudy.
“The Zhao Regiment, what about divorce?” “I don’t know.
“Why not divorce? I’ve written the divorce papers, I’ve signed them, and you’ll sign them, too. I’m sorry.
The divorce papers were arrested three times and reviewed three times.
“You’re crazy, divorce me! You’re paid more than I am. It’s all married property. You have to share with me! You told me to leave the house to my son. I’m sorry.
“Shh, every day, don’t scream, listen. Zhao put down the play key, and there’s not enough in it for the father-in-law, and there’s an easterly property, a $300,000 recording of the father-in-law.
“I went to your real estate. I didn’t know it was real. Are you going to count my matrimonial property? Well, I haven’t worked in three years, and I’m better paid than you. Besides, our son’s all-banking. I have it. You want to check it? You said I had a plan. I left you an easterly house. I’m sorry.
Zhao, you are evil! I don’t know which one of the two rooms in the northern ring is more valuable! I’m gonna sue you!
Zhao’s face didn’t get red.
“Verily, I am the ten good daughters-in-law. It has been more than six months. Ask him who will not praise me for my kindness, for his resignation, for her paralyzing mother-in-law, for her father-in-law, for taking care of her children alone, for your voice, for your video, for your voice, for your video, and for your house, whether it be sold or rented, and I will arrange for your house to be taken care of. I have no job, I have time to play with you, and prepare you and your unit.”
Oh, my God, I can’t stand it.
The following morning, the Zhao Regiment and Hu Xian divorced.
It was summer vacation, and Hu was waiting for her in Shanghai. The luggage was already in the trunk and, as for her resignation, she had long intended to take her child to Shanghai for a while. The only thing I know about has been sold. The Zhao Regiment also intends to stay with Hu Tian, Hu Jia, and die.
In addition, the Zhao Regiment left a gift for Hu:
He’s had enough of her early years, and she’s in the hands of her son, and as soon as he gets to the geriatric ballroom, he’s found a place where there’s an old wife who’s been widowed and well-maintained. This trip to China was accompanied by his “honorful friend”.
He can’t get a divorce, but with a new date, who will take good care of an old lady who’s been in bed for a long time?
It’s more painful than being paralysed by the house and money of Zhao’s own mother.
No matter how messy this is now, it has nothing to do with her.
Zhao’s new life is about to begin.
Do you regret marrying your husband now?
I don’t know.
Keep your eyes on the road.
