That’s great! It’s a four-class subject that girls love. You can’t stop talking, you sleep with her every time!
It’s 5,000 words, all about “how to talk to love” super-dicks, and it’s really good to ask you to “give some praise” because you can absolutely use it when you talk to her, especially with the second edition! Remember to come back and thank me!
Find out why you’re talking.
Do you know what the big deal is in this conversation?
It’s not a question of the soul of the household, it’s not a question of the “reverse” answer.
You’ve been talking to people for months, and you don’t realize why.
Are you just bored, trying to talk to someone, or do you think it’s fun to talk to each other, or do you like each other and want to get a good feeling through talking?
And think about why they talk to you?
Everyone’s time is valuable, and it’s hard for girls to keep talking to you without any special features or chips.
There are three reasons why girls are willing to talk to you:
Being attracted to you, being fond of you, is willing to spend time talking to you.
It doesn’t feel for you, but it usually ends when she thinks it’s right.
It was just boring, or you had nothing to do with her when you were looking for her, and you didn’t disgust her, so I talked to you.
It’s when you figure out what you’re talking about, that’s where you’re going.
So, how do we talk so we can rush into love?
Don’t worry, look down!
How can we talk to our lovers?
This part of the dry goods, which is aimed primarily at old irons who want to talk to someone they like, but who are not able to take the first step, I will offer some ways to start a conversation, a lively chat, to help you overcome your shyness, stress and cowardice, to show yourself a high-tempered, bright-lighted side of the world, and to make a brave move towards sweet love.
At the same time, I would like the old irons to shine their eyes and see what normal chat skills are and what PUA is, and once the conversation involves the humiliation of the person, mental control, etc., please end with the conversation. The principle of conversation, which I promote and share, must be based on “reliance and respect for each other” in the hope that the old irons will have a heart to fight and ban the PUA under the guise of “love chat.”
Two people in love basically go through four stages: strangers, friends, obscurantism, lovers.
If you can speed up progress through the tools, and quickly get past strangers and friends, and get to the obscurity stage, you’ll be in good hands.
So, how do we choose the subject to make girls feel better?
Knock on the board, the point is!
First, to determine the stage of your relationship with TA, and then to choose the right topic of the conversation in the following way.
The subject is common to both men and women, and if you want to succeed in taking the fairies of the gods, you can use it.
Phase I: Stranger period (0-4 weeks)
Practical difficulty:
The purpose of the chat: to remove the strangeness of each other and create a good initial impression
Chat skills: Start with yourself, then ask each other.
The main expression is, first, a brief description of yourself, similar to a sticker, so that the other person can quickly make an impression on you, and then, at the end of the topic, just a little: What about you?
Topics of application: Basic information (name, home, work, etc.) and topics that are objectively present but which are not relevant or have very little connection to interlocutors.
For example: self-presentation, information from home, specialty, recent weather, current affairs hot spots, shallow diets and hobbyes, topics that may be of interest to each other, pets, etc. The topic of this period is not appropriate to go too far, just to stop and avoid being mistook for privacy.
It’s not just a girl, it’s a boy who hates the opposite sex of a family-style attack.
Where are you from, when your birthday is, what do you like to do?
Such direct and direct interrogations can easily be misinterpreted as misunderstandings and even triggers the other side ‘ s defence.
Moreover, self-presentation must not be too serious or official.
For example, today you just added sister Weibo. What’s your first message?
A: Hi, beautiful. I’m xx. Nice to meet you.
(It’s a standard official introduction, and the answer is basically official: Nice to meet you, I’m xx. And then the subject ends, and the girl doesn’t really remember you. I’m not sure.
B: Hi, I’m the one who was forced to sing “Hail One” at the sorority.
(Try to find a link between the two, pick up girls ‘ memories of the boys, connect them to the real people, and have an active atmosphere that does not make girls feel serious or unspoken. I’m not sure.
In addition to self-presentation, other topics can use the technique of “I balabala, do you?”
For example, if you want to know what a girl likes to eat, it’s easy to order on a date.
And (O dear Prophet Mohammed – peace and blessings be upon him) (O dear Prophet Mohammed – peace and blessings be upon him), (O dear Prophet Mohammed – peace and blessings be upon him), (O dear Prophet Mohammed – peace and blessings be upon him), (O dear Prophet Mohammed – peace and blessings be upon him – peace and blessings be upon him)! I grew up in the South as a child, so that I could not eat spicy as a family, so that I could be spicy, so that I could be spicy with a little of it, and their eyes could be red with red eyes, and they mocked every day. How about you?
She: Ha ha. I can’t eat spicy either. I eat spicy.
And (O dear Prophet Mohammed – peace and blessings be upon him) (O dear Prophet Mohammed – peace and blessings be upon him)!
She: You can try it.
You know, you’ve grown in awareness of each other, you’ve become closer.
Phase II: Friends Phase (2-3 months)
Practical difficulty:
Purpose of the chat: closeness and affection
Chat skills: The frequency of chats is increasing appropriately and self-characterizing.
Applicable topics: topics related to you or girls
For example, childhood memories, student years, childhood embarrassments, hobbyes, views on something, book movies, recent ideas or plans, everyday life, etc.
Note that the topic of this stage of conversation is moving in a positive direction, with emphasis on the positive side of your self-confidence, which is not appropriate for the discussion of issues such as the shadows of childhood, the sufferings, etc., which can be raised during the obscurity period.
By that time, you had risen from a “unknown stranger” to a “friend you’ve just met” and, after eliminating each other’s guard, you were bold enough to show yourself.
But look, you have to be careful with your charms, and you’re better off showing them in an unwitting manner, flaunting them so that they can roll over and down.
For example:
The boys wanted to show the good body of their year-long physical fitness, and then, without a head or head, they gave the girls a picture of their tops naked, and then they wrote the case: “What do I do? I’m sorry.
Yes!
First of all, this photograph is likely to scare girls, especially those who are traditionally good; secondly, some girls do not like muscles, and even feel a little disgusting and very bad; and finally, girls may feel unwise and misbehave the boys.
Then how can you show yourself?
My secret is to get girls to think about themselves.
When you want to show something, don’t say it yourself, think about the effects of your skills and force girls to imagine your talents.
For example: good body = tall and mighty = strong = safe
When you talk, you can be proud and careless:
I’m the best at moving.
Or describe the scenes and make the girls think of themselves.
One night I ended up working out and came up with two dirty guys who didn’t look like good guys, who might have tried to rob and stare at me for half a day, and I was ready to fight, and it was strange that they had to pass.
At this point, girls automatically answer:
Maybe it was because you were strong and worried about being beaten up.
You see, it’s good, but it’s just to make a girl feel like you can protect her.
This similar scenario, which can easily be echoed in other common topics, such as moving homes, sports, going home at night, physical security, etc., does not appear to be abrupt, but it does well.
Phase III: Fuzzy phase (4-6 months of awareness)
Practical difficulty:
The purpose of the chat was to break the window paper and promote to boyfriend.
Chat technique: Deepening dependency + earthy conversation
Subjects of application: daily life, topics related to emotions, pain and relations between men and women
For example, childhood, the shadows of the student age, the ex-person (which, unless specifically mentioned by the other party, can be easily carried) and the emotional pain, love, dreams, planning for the future and life, the difficulties encountered in recent life, or the difficulties suffered.
Do you hesitate when you ask your family to help you? Almost rarely. But when you ask your friends to help, you often do.
This is the difference between those who can and those who cannot.
At this stage, what you need to do is to develop, through chats, behaviors, etc., a girl’s dependence on you, becoming her subconscious as her family.
At the same time, the topic can be chosen in favour of the human orientation, with a half-wielding and a half-wielding, and depending on the reaction of the other party, on when to confess.
There’s also a long-standing problem with gay men — I don’t know how to respond to negative emotions, e.g., excretion, anger, etc.
In fact, it is a test and an opportunity: she wants to judge, through your views and reactions to these things, whether you will accept her imperfect or not, the “right person”.
Faced with this kind of subject, you just have to analyze the emotional value of the girl, see if she’s just throwing up, asking for consolation or asking for a solution.
For example, the girl told you she made a small mistake today, but she was criticized by her superiors.
A. It’s okay. It’s over anyway. Don’t make mistakes again.
Answer score: 40. Reason: Girls are primarily seeking consolation, not forgiveness.
It’s okay for B. to be criticized for making a mistake. Don’t be too gay. Think about it.
Answer rating: -100.
The reason: not only did you not comfort her, but you also said that her glass heart, which had been criticized, had succeeded in turning it over to you.
C. What? Your superiors are so mean, they’re so strict, and I’m sorry. To save your good mood, I’ve decided to buy you a barbecue.
Answer: 70 points.
Reason: The emotional value of the girl is correctly captured, consolation is appropriate, and she is more forthcoming in her engagement, but appears to be “good ” to the girl.
D. You all right? You made a mistake, but you didn’t mean it. I think it’s a little over-critical. If you’re still upset, why don’t you come out?
Answer rating: full.
Reason: Consolation of girls and expression of their views and final acceptance of offers. It’s equal for both sides and it takes care of each other’s emotions.
You learn how to analyze emotional values?
You know, I don’t have to teach you how to collect hundreds of them online, watch them a few times, make sure they’re familiar with them. It’s the best way to carry them down, and then see the needles in the chat, sew each other in an unexpected way and get the girls’ attention in a moment.
Phase IV: Relationships
Practical difficulty:
The purpose of the chat: managing feelings, grinding them up, heading towards marriage.
Chat skills: Proficiency in non-violent communication
Applicable topics: All topics, especially those that are innovative and conducive to communication
When it comes to love, besides sweet, there’s an essential argument.
It is absolutely your communication that is at issue when you feel that you are being unreasonable and that you are being indifferent.
This is when talking is all the more important: right and rational communication is the only means of repairing your spiritual bridges.
Girls are born to be sensitive, so the fight over the Cold War should be handled by you as a boyfriend.
So I’m going to talk to you about one of the most troubling things: you’re not making a mistake, but what if the other one’s making a scene?
My secret is, like my father’s daughter, to get a girlfriend.
Simple 3 Steps:
Tell yourself not to be angry: “I am a grown-up father, and she is a daughter who does not understand.”
Whether it’s right or wrong, it’s a misunderstanding.
“Girls” have returned to their senses, become aware of the aftermath, and then indulged and patiently taught their daughters to correct their mistakes.
This is the way to deal with the more extreme type of fight, where we can occasionally use a girlfriend but not become customary.
It’ll give her the subconscious, “He’s going to make me laugh, I’m going to keep messing with you.”
So, is there another way that you can get a good fight out of your girlfriend?
Of course.
This is the charm of reading. After reading Nonviolent Communication and Intimacy, my girlfriend and I settled 80% of the argument.
What is non-violent communication?
In total, four steps: to describe the objective facts — to say what you feel — to explain what you feel — to demand immediately.
That’s a good move.
For example, girlfriends are angry with the Cold War because you often work late at night.
Example: Why are you so angry? It’s not you who worked so hard until midnight. If it’s not for you, do I have to spell it?
Example: Baby, I know you’re unhappy because I’ve been working late late at night and you feel like you’re being left alone and neglected. I feel sad and helpless because I really want to go to bed with you on time, but when the company gets up, everyone works overtime, even if I want to come back early, not really.
I want you to understand my difficulties, hold on a little while longer, and I promise I’ll be home by 8:00 a.m. every day.
Such communication would have a much better effect than a taste for error or reason.
In the meantime, you will also face the issue of a retreat of passion and a weakening of emotions.
After the old man’s wife, you feel like you have nothing to talk about, and at this point you need to open up something deeper and more innovative.
My girlfriend was smart, and she chose the “debate” to overcome the “no talk.” Selecting a certain point of view in a different field will make us both happy and happy.
It’s a really good way to do it, not only because it’s fun, but because you’re after me and you’re getting to know each other better, it’s much less boring.
There is also a way to inadvertently mention the good old days, such as the rising of the sea, the climbing of the mountain, and so on, and to strengthen your current feelings with good memories, but this cannot be mentioned many times, not more than three times in a year.
Attention
Do not lick dog number one. He’s got no electricity for you. Sometimes what you’re missing is not talking about, it’s what you like.
It is important not only to rely on talking, but also to regulate the atmosphere, to assist the mood, and to try to move to an atmosphere of ease, joy and joy.
The process of your relations is often reviewed to prevent prolonged stagnation and to pay attention to gradual progress.
Watch out for the selection of venues for chatting. Playgrounds, parks, restaurants, etc. are good for chatting, while cinemas, haunted houses, hotels, you often have other things to do and don’t talk about.
When it’s too late, don’t bother. A low-scoring image of a conversation may take 10 minutes to get back.
Summary
Find out why you’re talking, what you want to get, who you’re talking to, who you’re talking to, or who you’re talking to.
Knowing the four levels of promotion from strangers to lovers, knowing how to talk is the way to love.
Based on your relationship with her at this stage, choose the appropriate topic for the chat.
Watch your step during the chat.
Finally, it’s the old rule.
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I don’t know.
Keep your eyes on the road.
