What suddenly made you give up a relationship?
I broke up with my ex the day after 5.20. The reason for
the breakup is a little hard to say. On the day
of 5.20, I paid for the room and let it go; we didn’t bring anything and used the hotel temporarily, but my predecessor forced me to use up the second item in the box with the principle of not wasting, which was a bad experience and let it go; the next day, the deposit for checking out was put into his pocket without blinking an eye. Flowing clouds and running water of the
action, the ex becomes the ex.
In a fit of anger, I packed all my luggage, ended my seven-year life of drifting north, and returned to the third-tier city where my hometown is located.
I quickly found a job and took on management work in an Internet company. After a short running-in
with the team, he devoted himself to the new project.
A colleague of mine made a mistake in a parameter, which caused the whole project schedule to be delayed.
I quickly apologized to the customer leader of Party A. I took the team to work overtime for two weeks, and finally caught up with the progress of the project. The customer leader of
Party a is very tolerant to me. Seeing that I was a little trembling,
he patted me on the shoulder and comforted me by saying, “Your ability is obvious to all. Relax. The project will go smoothly in the end.”.
I was almost moved to tears.
Third-tier cities are good, and even the leaders of Party a have become easy to talk to. The
work is going well, but the pressure of being single at an older age is off the charts.
Female, 29 years old. In our city, many people have given birth to their second child. I,
on the other hand, will turn thirty next week.
In ancient times, a 30-year-old prostitute was either promoted to be a mother or was going to quit her job.
But I’m still a single dog. After
work, blind dates continue.
But the middle-aged blind date is really a long story.
Either too ugly, big belly or bald; or divorced with a child, the background is too complicated; or family conditions are too poor, I am not noble enough to want to poverty alleviation; or personality is not quite right with me, communication barriers; or family conditions are acceptable, but the money is too stingy; there are also stable can not pick out what is wrong, but I have no feelings on the appearance.
Of course, after my predecessor, what I can’t stand most is the stingy man.
Although the blind dates all ended in failure, I did not reject the blind dates.
Because I turn every blind date into an opportunity to develop customers-our company is relatively small, and the boss encourages every employee to do their job well while pulling business.
One day, when I was walking with my mother, I came across Aunt Wang, an old sister of my mother.
The two old women chatted and talked about the introduction of the object. Aun
tie Wang said, “This young man is thirty-five this year. He is tall. He looks like a talented person. He has done a good job. He has a high position in the company. His income can not be said.”.
The only thing is that you are divorced and have a baby.
But don’t worry, because the child lives with her mother. As soon as
my mother heard that she was “divorced and had a baby,” she was not happy. “A man who takes care of a child should not be introduced to Liang Xiaoyu in our family. But
I didn’t want to give up this opportunity to get business, so I asked Aunt Wang to push the man’s WeChat to me.
Click on WeChat business cards, I can’t help laughing-isn’t this person Liu Zhanhui, the customer leader of Party a?
I can’t help but search for his image in my mind. Every time I see him, he is dressed in a suit, fresh and refreshing, not greasy at all. He looks like a man with a wife at home.
He is 35 years old, and he is divorced and has a baby?
The last time I made a mistake, his attitude of slowly enlightening me was still vivid in my mind.
I suddenly recalled his warm and strong palm when he patted me on the shoulder and his deep and magnetic voice when he spoke to me.
If the blind date is him. There was a sudden movement in my heart. For the first time since we
broke up, I wonder if I can break the rules of my previous choice of spouse?
This time I decided to trust my own feelings and use the prehistoric power of an it straight woman to tease him, “General Manager Liu, I didn’t expect that I, a single dog, would come to you for a blind date.”. My heart was pounding for a few minutes while I
waited for a reply. How can it be called a blind date if we
don’t meet?
He replied with this sentence. Before
I could react, he called me directly and asked me to watch a movie and have dinner on Saturday afternoon.
I was not reserved and immediately agreed.
That afternoon, Liu Zhanhui told me that he had to work overtime temporarily.
He suggested another day, or he might wait for him for a long time.
I said devilishly, “It doesn’t matter. I’ll wait.”.
So I went to see the movie alone. It was a sentimental love story. When the couple whispered
next to me, I actually imagined that one day he and I would be so close. After
watching the movie, I went to the mall near their company alone.
Passing by the cosmetics display cabinet on the first floor, for the first time, I was fooled by the cabinet sister.
The cabinet sister gave me free eyebrow repair and makeup-I bought a lot of cosmetics raw materials and equipment such as foundation, eyebrow pencil, concealer and so on in their house at one go.
When I cleaned myself up and drank coffee leisurely in the mall cafe, I couldn’t help but send a selfie to my best friend Fan Fan.
Fan Fan replied to me, “Make up?”? Are
you finally enlightened?
What is the situation? Tell me the truth! I gave a brief description of Liu Zhanhui’s situation, but there was no movement on Fan Fan’s side.
I called her and told her to get to the point. Only then did
Fan Fan say, “Xiaoyu, before you officially start this relationship, end it right away and leave.”.
Like a slap in the face, I said, Just because he’s married and has a baby?
Yes, because he’s married and has a baby.
I don’t know anything about him yet.
“Fan Fan’s tone was indisputable.” No need to ask.
As a married woman with two children, I tell you that they have children. As long as he and his ex-wife did not divorce until they were old and dead, you will feel that you can’t get rid of his ex-wife and children all your life.
“I’m not convinced.” These days, don’t think that after you give birth to a child with a man, what will happen? There are many divorced couples with a son and a daughter! ” Fan Fan didn’t make a sound for a long time.
I also felt that what I had just said had gone too far, and I quickly made up for it. Of course, you and your father are the only exceptions. Didn’t you never consider a man with a baby in a second marriage
before?
Fan Fan sighed, “Be careful to understand the reasons for his divorce, the distribution of property from his previous marriage, and the responsibility of raising his children.”. After seven o’clock
that evening, I waited for Liu Zhanhui.
As soon as he arrived, he repeatedly apologized, fearing that I would not have enough to eat, and ordered a large table of dishes.
I joked with him, “If you order so many dishes, you won’t sneak away and let me pay the bill later, will you?”?
Liu Zhanhui laughed loudly and seemed to realize something. He asked tentatively, “Did my boyfriend ever do this?”? Embarrassed,
I admitted, When it came time to check out, he often pretended to play with his cell phone, and then I went to pay the bill silently.
Liu Zhanhui looked at me with a smile in his eyes. Embarrassed by him,
I picked up the cup on the table and lowered my head to drink water, but felt my hair being touched gently. To
review my resume, I studied computer science and technology in college, then graduated to a big IT company, and now the proportion of male students in the IT department has been much higher than that of female students.
For many years, most of the boys in my class called me “Brother Little Rain.”. The frequency of the
opposite sex rubbing my hair is not low, but the treatment is usually my backhand clap, and then spit a few words by the way.
But at this moment, the killing of touching my head makes my whole body soft.
I immediately reminded myself to wake up, not a touch of the head to kill it! Routine! It’s all routine! Don’t be such a loser and cheer up! I tried to shake off my little emotions and asked him the reason for the divorce.
This night, Liu Zhanhui told me everything about him.
Because of personality reasons, he and his ex-wife often had a cold war after marriage, and their feelings gradually faded later.
The ex-wife proposed to break up, and the house and daughter belonged to the ex-wife at the time of divorce, and the family split the cash in half.
In the past few years, he worked hard and bought another house mortgage. Remembering Fan Fan’s words,
I simply asked, “Excuse me, how much alimony do you give your daughter every month?”? There was a trace of guilt in
his eyes. Now Xixi is in primary school and has two extracurricular interest classes.
I agreed with her mother that a large amount of expenses, such as education and medical care, would be 50-50. I still have three thousand yuan for Cece’s living expenses
every month.
Every two weeks, I take a day off from the weekend to pick up Cece. With
that, he looked at me rather helplessly. Have you been scared off?
I shook my head.
Without my ex, maybe I would be scared off by the money he spends on his ex-wife and daughter every month.
However, after experiencing his predecessor, Liu Zhanhui at that moment, I only saw him honest, Frank, responsible, responsible, and special man.
A man who is kind and righteous to his predecessor is not much worse than his current one. The look in
my eyes must have betrayed me.
Because he rubbed my hair again, sighed, and said in a spoiled way, “In today’s society, there are not many simple girls like you.”.
I deliberately said, “You’re wrong. I’m actually a gold-digger!” Liu Zhanhui smiled at the corners of his mouth. “When we get married, except for the money I gave them, I will hand over all the money I earned.”.
His words made me a little shy. Are you thick-skinned? Are you still married? Who promised to be with you?
That being said, we kissed that very night.
His kiss was wet and hot, full of desire.
I can’t stop.
Our relationship has grown by leaps and bounds. Shortly after
we got together, I joined him to meet his five-year-old daughter, Cece.
The little girl is smart and her little face is very white. The first time
we met, she told me secretly not to worry about being her father’s girlfriend, because her mother also had a boyfriend and had no time to talk to her father. When
Liu Zhanhui learned about it, he said, “Xixi’s mother is a little good. She has a special sense of boundaries. She never speaks ill of me in front of her children.”. I never contact her on weekdays
except when I have to communicate with her about my children.
In short, there is absolutely no broken thread.
After talking for almost half a year, the relationship gradually stabilized, and Liu Zhanhui and I had plans to get married.
Fan Fan was puzzled. “You’ve been with your ex for so many years, but you don’t plan to get married. How can you plan to get married after being with Lao Liu for so little time?”?
Intellectually, there are reasons for age and reasons for the maturity of material conditions.
And the more important reason is that when I was with Liu Zhanhui, I didn’t feel like “Brother Rain” for a moment.
I will not remember that my name is Liang Xiaoyu, and I am an it female code farmer. All the time
we were together, I completely forgot my name, occupation, age, history.. And what he said to me, the way he looked at me, made me feel strongly that I was just a woman who loved a man.
This feeling has nothing to do with the length of time and external conditions.
It happens unexpectedly, breaking all frameworks, rules, customs, self-presuppositions and presuppositions of others.
If this is not love, then what is? It was only after
we were really together that I really understood the meaning of the phrase “Every time I’m with Lao Yi, it’s like taking a hot bath” in Eileen Chang’s Lust, Caution.
Another thing I didn’t say was that we had no pressure to use the two installed T.
Fan Fan had already heard this. “Hurry up and marry him.”.
After all, in marriage these days, not everyone has the luxury of taking a hot bath.
The loudest voice of opposition came from my parents. Before I
took Liu Zhanhui home, I communicated with them.
The two men said no in unison. My mother,
in particular, almost beat her chest and stamped her feet. At that time, Aunt Wang wanted to introduce you to this person, and my heart suddenly sank. Now it seems that it’s just a bad feeling! When you first said you wanted to get to know each other in order to expand your business, I didn’t stop you. I really regret it. I snickered, “When you forced me to get married, didn’t you say it was okay to be a man or a living man?”?
“My mother turned her back on me and glared at me.” Can’t you hear that I was angry?
！」 She sighed and asked about Liu Zhanhui in detail. After
hearing this, he lamented, “He is a good man, too.”.
But his daughter is too young to be a stepmother, and you have to grind.
I can’t help but defend Liu Chan-hui. His ex-wife has a great sense of boundaries, and generally doesn’t come to disturb our lives.
“My mother just sneered,” Don’t talk too early, that’s when nothing happens! Once the child has something to do, it’s a big deal. You’ll see if she comes to disturb your life! What can happen to a child?
“Children have a lot of things to do. When they were young, they had headaches and fevers, got sick with fever, quarreled and fought with others in adolescence, had puppy love, failed exams, cheated in exams..” I rolled my eyes, and the more my mother went on, the more exaggerated she became.
My father waited for my mother to finish before saying, “Xiaoyu, every marriage has its difficulties.”.
Second marriage may be more difficult-have you really thought about it?
“My mother gave my father a hard pat on the back and shouted,” Do you agree?
！」 My father’s voice also rose unconsciously. “The child has grown up. What should I do if I don’t agree?”?
If a woman fails to stay, she will become an enemy if she stays here and there.
Xiaoyu takes this relationship so seriously. Now we don’t agree. She won’t marry in the future. Are you responsible?
My mother was so angry that she slapped my father a few more times. When
my father finished, he began to drink tea calmly.
I couldn’t help laughing.
Liu Zhanhui took me to their house long ago.
His parents, his sister, his aunts and uncles are all very satisfied with me.
I had no idea that his family was so reasonable that they wouldn’t let me do any housework and kept forcing me to eat.
The first time I went to his house, the fried prawns made by Liu Zhanhui’s father were so delicious. Can I say that I ate the first dish alone?
As a result, his father saw that I loved it and fried a second plate for me.
The second dish was not finished, Liu Zhanhui’s mother took the lunch box for me to pack back, and also packed a lot of stewed beef, chicken wings, chicken feet, tofu and so on.
For the sake of their enthusiasm, I didn’t treat myself as an outsider and accepted them all.
Every time I go to his house, I eat and carry.
Even Fan Fan envies me. It’s good that her mother-in-law doesn’t dig things out of her refrigerator. After
my parents agreed, a large group of relatives of Lao Liu’s family came to propose marriage according to the custom, and also took the initiative to mention the betrothal gift. They were afraid that I would be wronged as a big girl.
In short, although our situation is one marriage and two marriages, there are no couples who are often seen on the Internet because of betrothal gifts, houses, wedding ceremonies and other issues. Before
getting the license, we found a lawyer to notarize it. My name was added to the property ownership certificate of
Liu Zhanhui’s house.
As for mine, he said he would leave it to me as a premarital property.
His exact words were, “My wife is mine, and isn’t the house mine?”?
I’ve never felt so at ease. After
getting the certificate, we were busy preparing all kinds of trifles for the wedding, taking wedding photos, choosing wedding companies, decorating new houses, ordering wedding dresses.. Apart from taking wedding photos, I did it myself, and other things, either my parents or Liu Zhanhui’s family helped to deal with, even the wedding dress, Fan Fan accompanied me to buy and try it on.
Unexpectedly, I, an engineering woman who hardly pays attention to romance, had a fairy-tale wedding. At the
wedding, when my father handed my hand to Lao Liu, I couldn’t help but shed tears of happiness. The only
fly in the ointment is that Liu Zhanhui was so busy that we didn’t go on our honeymoon right away.
He said that when he finished his work, we would go to Sanya on vacation during the Spring Festival.
I didn’t take it too seriously. As long as we have a good relationship, it’s the same when we go out to play.
On the contrary, the whole wedding, let me feel sorry that Liu Zhanhui’s family in order to take care of my mood, did not let Xi Xi attend the wedding.
Later, I learned that Cece had a high fever on the day of our wedding and had been struggling all night. The fever did not subside
until daybreak.
I feel guilty.
4. I don’t know if it’s because it’s hard for children to accept that their parents have a new family. In the last two months, I often heard Liu Zhanhui say that Xixi is not feeling well.
I just laughed.
Married life, although there are some small bumps, but the overall is still calm and happy.
It was not until my mother and Fan Fan gave birth all day long that I had to start soaking my feet and drinking Chinese medicine to regulate my body that something happened.
On this day, I came out of the Department of Traditional Chinese Medicine on the fourth floor of the largest third-class hospital in our city with a large bag full of boiled Chinese medicine.
The medicine was so heavy that the handle of the plastic bag filled with the medicine was broken as soon as we arrived at the outpatient hall on the first floor.
I was about to go back to ask the nurse for a stronger bag when I suddenly saw a familiar figure-my new husband Liu Zhanhui. Opposite
him stood a middle-aged woman in plain clothes with disheveled hair.
Do not know what two people said, the middle-aged woman’s mood suddenly collapsed.
She shrugged her shoulders and leaned forward toward Liu Zhanhui.
Liu Zhanhui, however, did not mean to push her away at all. Instead, he freed up one hand, hugged her hard, and patted her on the back a few times.
I’m confused. As soon as the
hand loosened, the plastic bag containing the Chinese medicine broke with a “tear,” and the medicine inside was scattered all over the floor. Who is
this woman? The caring and natural movements of the
two people, like relatives, belong to the atmosphere of an old couple.
My intuition is that she is Liu Zhanhui’s ex-wife.
Liu Zhanhui won’t revive with his ex-wife so soon, will he?
If so, what am I to him?
My mother asked me to go to her place for lunch at noon, and I went there out of my mind.
My mother really saw that I had a problem. “Did you quarrel with Xiao Liu?”?
“” No. I didn’t want to say that the
facts were not conclusive, but my emotions betrayed me, and I cried.
My mother asked me what was wrong.
I couldn’t help talking about what I had just seen in the hospital.
My mother flew into a rage and immediately called Liu Zhanhui.
I was sad, upset, half broken, waiting for him to reveal his cards.
In the evening, Liu Zhanhui arrived.
Looking at his gloomy face, my heart sank.
My mother didn’t care so much. “I just went straight into it. What do you mean by cuddling with a woman in the hospital this morning?”?
Liu Zhanhui moved his lips and struggled to speak. I’m sorry, Mom. I was with my mother
today.
The doctor suspected that the child had.. Leukemia.
5. The news is like thunder on the ground. My mother and
I said “ah” in unison, and I couldn’t help thinking of Cece’s always pale face.
My dad kept saying, “How can you get sick?”?
“My mother asked,” Have you been diagnosed? How is the child
now?
Liu Zhanhui’s voice choked with sobs: Not yet, but there are a lot of symptoms, and all kinds of indicators are not good. The child is already in the upper house.
I suddenly felt that I was making a mountain out of a molehill by asking for punishment.
I wiped away my tears. “Why haven’t I heard you talk about it before?”?
I only heard that Cece often had a fever in the last two months.
Liu Zhanhui sighed. We all thought she just had a cold, a fever, and a pain in her body. She never went to the hospital, and she didn’t think about that at all. It wasn’t until
yesterday, when her mother was giving her a bath, that she discovered that she had ecchymosis on her body and took her to the hospital. That day, after Liu Zhanhui and I went home, he closed the door and called for a long time.
Lao Liu felt guilty and blamed himself all night.
He always felt that he had done something wrong and Cece got sick. “I still spent too little time with my children.”.
Once Cece told me she was dizzy, and I blamed her mother for not paying attention to nutrition.
Now that I think about it, she was sick at that time.
Lao Liu told me that since Xixi fell ill, Lao Liu’s ex-wife’s boyfriend ran away. In a Consultative tone,
he said, Grandpa and Grandma took 300,000 yuan at one go as medical expenses, saying that if they needed it later, they would pay again.
I think you don’t mind giving Cece an extra two thousand yuan a month for living expenses?
I actually mind a little, but I say I don’t mind.
Because I know that even if I mind, according to Lao Liu’s character, I will compensate their mother and daughter in other ways.
Old Liu was tired and finally fell into a deep sleep.
And that night, I couldn’t sleep.
I soberly realized that because of Xixi’s illness, Lao Liu and I could never be as calm and happy as usual.
Cece was diagnosed.
I told Fan Fan what had happened at home recently, and she gave me a heavy look and a deep sigh.
I couldn’t help saying, “I should have listened to you. I shouldn’t have started.”.
“Fan Fan sighed,” When fate comes, there is nothing we can do about it.
In Chinese families, heaven and earth are big, and children are the biggest thing. What is
Lao Liu going to do?
“” Cure it.
“Fan Fan looked at me, eyes red,” you this life is a little better… ” I shook my head to prevent her from going on.
Lao Liu was very busy, and now he is even busier.
Besides working, he was also busy running to the hospital.
I was at home, and the frequency of seeing him dropped dramatically. When I
saw him, I would repeatedly confirm his face before I dared to ask one or two questions about Cece’s condition.
I offered to see Xi Xi, Lao Liu said that during the epidemic, to avoid cross infection, hospitals are not allowed to visit patients, accompanying parents can only have one. It’s
all taken care of by the child’s mother. Can’t she go to work?
I couldn’t help asking.
Xixi’s mother asked for a long vacation, and the child’s grandparents took turns to accompany her.
“Old Liu hugged me hard.” You’ve been wronged during this time. As a good-for-
nothing, his words warmed my heart again.
In just a few months, the sea has changed. The Spring Festival
is coming.
I had no idea that the first New Year after my wedding would be so heavy and vicissitudes, full of middle-aged flavor. There is no doubt that the honeymoon trip to Sanya, which was planned
before, was stranded. I understand that he is not in the mood for such a big thing
at home.
Although I wanted to relax very much, I didn’t even mention it. When
I followed Lao Liu to my parents-in-law’s home, their family would also discuss their illness.
Everyone is speculating about how Cece could have such a disease and recalling all kinds of lovely actions of Cece when she was a child. As she spoke
, her mother-in-law and sister-in-law could not help wiping their tears.
The father-in-law, on the other hand, shouted, “I’m fine. Don’t say anything about this!” I couldn’t get a word in edgewise, and I had a strong feeling that I was an outsider.
After a while, I heard that Cece had in stable condition come down and left the hospital.
Lao Liu will occasionally find time to accompany me to go shopping and watch movies.
We haven’t made out for a long time.
I admit that I deliberately asked him to accompany me to watch Lust, Caution on the computer that day. After
reading it, I told him the classic hot bath.
So that day, we took a hot bath happily for a long time.
I nestled in Lao Liu’s hot arms and didn’t want to get up. “Didn’t Cece leave the hospital? I didn’t see her when she was in the hospital. I wanted to see her.”.
Why don’t you pick her up for a few days?
Old Liu’s body was obviously tight.
He stroked my hair and said, “She is very fragile now, and the doctor said to pay attention to protection.”.
Her mother wouldn’t let her see anyone else, and even I, the child, had to see her.
I was a little disappointed, but at the same time I felt a sense of relief.
Frankly, I haven’t figured out how to deal with a sick child. The last
person Cece wants to see now is the woman beside his father-me.
Cece is in the hospital again.
I was worried, but Liu Zhanhui comforted me that it was the next stage of treatment.
He’s not like Cece, who often doesn’t see anyone when he’s sick.
He will accompany me when he is free.
Last weekend, when we went shopping together, he saw that I liked blind boxes. With a big wave of his hand, he bought me a whole set.
I also laughed at him, thus losing the essence of buying a blind box: uncertainty.
But he said, “Life has given us both too much uncertainty. Let’s pursue a little certainty in this matter where we all pursue uncertainty.”. As I
looked at him, I felt a steady feeling in my heart.
Even with his ex-wife and daughter, I believe he will take care of me. During
that time, I had a peaceful and full life, and everything was in order. When I woke up
one morning, I suddenly realized that my period had been half a month late. There are two striking bars on the pregnancy
test stick.
I wanted to tell Liu Zhanhui right away, but he had already driven out.
I simply go to the hospital to check and confirm, and then put the hospital’s test report in front of him, so that he can be happy.
I took the whole morning off and went out to the hospital happily. There were so many people in
the hospital that I drew blood and wandered around the hospital waiting for the results. Unexpectedly
, I saw Liu Zhanhui come out of a community next to the hospital.
I’m suspicious. What’s he doing in this neighborhood?
He hurried to the direction of the subway station. Before
I could recover, his ex-wife came out of the neighborhood.
Unlike him, his ex-wife walked directly to the hospital.
I quickly pulled down my hat and put on my mask, as if I had done something shameful.
This scene ruined my good mood all morning.
Later, when I got the results, the doctor congratulated me on my pregnancy and explained all kinds of precautions to me, I didn’t feel excited.
I hesitated and did not tell Lao Liu the news of the diagnosis of pregnancy at the first time.
I think we need to confirm some things first.
I started looking for evidence like crazy.
After Lao Liu fell asleep, I took his finger to unlock the mobile phone, and there was no evidence of derailment in the WeChat.
My mother was never optimistic about my marriage, and I didn’t dare to tell her about it.
But I really needed an outlet. I had no choice but to tell Fan Fan, “Is it possible? I think too much. They are just going to discuss things.”?
“Fan Fan gasped,” Even if two people discuss the matter of children, don’t you have to go to the community to discuss it? Can’t you
find a coffee shop?
I couldn’t figure it out. Even if they rekindled their old love, why didn’t they just open a room? Why did they go to the neighborhood near the hospital?
Fan Fan thought for a moment and said, Now you need an ID card to open a room.
Lao Liu’s mind is so meticulous that when he goes to open a room, he must leave a record.
“I wailed,” As for being so careful?
“Fan Fan is also very helpless.” What do you think?
Why don’t you just ask him?
I dare not. I am
afraid that the happiness that I finally hold in my hands will be scattered.
This time, I’m going to find the truth first.
But, how to check it?
Fan Fan’s words reminded me that there must be a record of opening a room.
Whether Lao Liu has opened a room or not, I will check it carefully.
The matter was urgent and important, and I paid a high price to find a private detective.
A week later. When the
detective found out, it was worse than I thought.
My husband, Liu Zhanhui, did not open a room with his ex-wife.
He just, a few days a month, goes to the neighborhood near the hospital to get together with his ex-wife.
Yes, that’s the neighborhood where I saw him and his ex-wife come out one after the other last time.
They rented a small apartment together.
I looked at the time of renting, and it was about the same time that Cece found out she was sick.
And he didn’t tell me a word about it.
A chill came over me. What did he take me for?
I asked the detective, “What is he doing in that house besides being with the kids?”? “There was no camera in his house,
” the detective said. “He didn’t find out what he was doing inside.
But I did find out something about his ex-wife.
The detective hacked Cece’s mother’s account, swiped the iPad with his finger, and the photos slid in front of my eyes one by one.
Ovulation test paper, pregnancy test paper, imported folic acid, imported milk.. I have to say, her shopping list is quite similar to mine.
I almost fainted. “Is she going to get pregnant?”?
“The detective nodded.” It seems so.
The detective added: She also changed the shampoo, shower gel and a full range of skincare products at home.
I fixed my eyes on it, and they were all the brands I used. Are you
afraid that I can smell her on Liu Zhanhui?
There’s no need for the detective to explain anything.
Cece’s father and mother, in order to hide me as an outsider, are really scheming.
My hand gently stroked my still flat lower abdomen, and my heart was full of mixed feelings. This child came at a bad time.
But the cards that should be laid out must be laid out.
6. In a serious tone, I told Liu Zhanhui that I had something to talk to him.
He seldom sees me serious and jokes with me.
I sat him down face to face with a wave of my hand and told him, “First thing, I’m pregnant.”.
Liu Zhanhui was so overjoyed that he came over to hug me and asked me when I found out.
I pushed him away and said calmly, “a week ago.”.
Liu Chan-hui felt something was wrong. He sat down slowly. Why didn’t you tell me at the first time?
I fixed my eyes on him and threw out the first card. Because my new husband rented a house with his ex-wife, he set up a new home and planned to have a second child.
Liu Chan-hui’s face changed. He took my hand and said, “It’s not what you think!” What is that? It’s a long
story.
It’s all right. I’ll listen no matter how long it is.
It turned out that not long after Cece was diagnosed with illness, the doctor advised them that it would be better to rent a house near the hospital.
Because blood disease is a chronic disease, the treatment time is long and the condition is complex.
Living close to each other makes it easier to take care of the child when he is hospitalized, and it is easier to see the doctor after the child is discharged from the hospital.
That’s why they rented a house near the hospital.
I nodded and threw out the second card. “But Cece’s mom, why do you want to buy things like ovulation test strips?”?
Don’t tell me she’s testing for fun. I don’t buy that.
Liu Zhanhui’s lips trembled a few times, but he did not make a sound.
It seems to be true, and I am completely desperate.
Liu Chan-hui strode over and hugged me. “It’s really not what you think!” Are you going to have another baby?
I struggled to say.
Yes.
He readily admitted it.
We are trying to save the child.
Save the child?
Cece’s mother looked up a lot of literature, and in Cece’s case, hematopoietic stem cell transplantation was the most thorough treatment.
It is said that the umbilical cord blood of brothers and sisters with the same father and mother has the best treatment effect.
So you two secretly made a baby?
！」 Lao Liu was silent. Do
your parents know about this?
！」 Lao Liu is still silent.
I burst into tears. “How dare the whole family hide it from me?”?
So how did you do it? Sleep with me after sleeping with
her?
No matter what noble reason you’re doing it for, I really feel dirty right now! Old Liu also cried, “You are different from her.”.
Believe it or not, I did that thing with her, completely without emotion, purely to complete the task. I only have affection with her, and there is no love left.
My heart was cut and I asked a question that I didn’t want to know but had to ask: She.. Are you pregnant?
Old Liu said, I don’t know yet.
“I wiped away my tears and sneered,” If you’re not pregnant, how many times do you have to play noble P?
Old Liu ignored my acrimony. It
won’t happen again.
“I’m sorry, Xiaoyu..” Lao Liu is still apologizing, but I can’t hear a word.
I am very entangled, checked the relevant information, the treatment of this disease, to see the matching results.
Even if Lao Liu’s ex-wife succeeds in giving birth to a child, what will happen if the match is unsuccessful?
Is there another one?
Did it work?
With the baby in my belly, Lao Liu has to bear the cost of three children, one of whom is sick and the other is illegitimate.
Lao Liu’s income is good in our local area, but the burden of three children, the family is very tight.
If I were not pregnant now, I would not hesitate to divorce.
Out of the spirit of humanitarianism, he promised me to pay half of my house and salary before, and I don’t want all of them.
But. The baby in my belly is also a life. Can you say no?
7. I couldn’t help laughing and crying when I saw the small black spots on the B-mode ultrasound sheet.
At that moment, I suddenly understood Lao Liu’s ex-wife.
When the child is a fertilized egg, the mother cares so much, so ecstatic, let alone the child she has raised for so many years, how can she watch her die?
But within five minutes of my understanding, I saw the name of Lao Liu’s ex-wife on the display screen in the gynecological waiting room of the hospital.
I questioned Lao Liu directly. Yes, Lao Liu’s ex-wife is also pregnant.
I really can’t make up my mind to make an appointment with Fan Fan.
Fan Fan’s eyes almost popped out. “Is there nothing else she can do?”?
Don’t tell me that to save the baby, all these cases have to have another baby.
I looked at the information and couldn’t understand it, so I reluctantly explained, This treatment is related to a match.
According to Lao Liu, the whole family went to do a match, which was strange, and no one could match it. If you
use strangers, you can only wait for the notice from the Chinese Bone Marrow Bank.
If you don’t have any, you need to find umbilical cord blood.
“Fan Fan shook his head.” So she took the risk of having another one?
At this point, I can only sigh.
Fan Fan said, “I suddenly remembered, aren’t you pregnant, too?”?
If all she needs is umbilical cord blood, she doesn’t have to give birth. I
recalled the data I had read, “In the case of umbilical cord blood, the probability of successful matching of umbilical cord blood of the same father and the same mother is not as high as that of the same father and the same mother.”.
Fan Fan remembered something. “It seems so.”.
Do you remember there is a TV play called “Blood Linglong”? In order to save the child, the mother
inside plans to have another child to find umbilical cord blood, but the last child is not her husband’s. At this point, Fan Fan sighed, “What do you think?”?
Reason tells me that if I don’t want to have these intrigues and subsequent troubles, I should decide to abort the child and divorce.
But in this case, first, I am worried that I will not have a chance to be a mother in the future; second, I am a little unwilling to meet Lao Liu after so many years, and I am reluctant to part with this marriage.
I’m very confused. If we don’t divorce, can we let his ex-wife give birth to the child? Should
I talk to Lao Liu about how much the upper limit is for saving people?
Fan Fan shook his head. This is a bottomless pit. There is no upper limit.
From the legal point of view, if her ex-wife really gave birth to the child, you can collect evidence to sue Lao Liu for bigamy.
So, that child can’t be born?
I can’t bear it.
As a mother, I understand what she did.
But what she did really harmed your interests.
This child must not be born.
You have to take out your point of view and suggest that they wait for the match of the Chinese Bone Marrow Bank.
This is a matter of principle.
I’m still swaying.
Fan Fan rolled his eyes. “Can you keep your head clear?”? If you live in
such an unclear way, you will be confused all your life.
You have to think about it. Even if you are the stepmother of one child, are you really sure that you want to be the stepmother of two children?
And one of them is an illegitimate child, and the other is a sick child. Are you really sure? With a deep sigh,
I sighed and said, I didn’t expect a real marriage to be like this. If I had
known this, I wouldn’t have looked forward to it at all.
Fan Fan also heaved a deep sigh. Did your parents know that they had given birth to a child secretly?
“I smiled bitterly.” I haven’t said it yet. I guess my mother knows she has to jump up.
When I was still struggling, I didn’t expect my mother-in-law to come to me with a big basket of native eggs and two catfish.
As soon as she came up, she said why she didn’t tell her about such a happy event as pregnancy.
Then he asked me about my various reactions and asked me to have a good rest. Then the topic inadvertently turned to the matter of Cece. He first affirmed my grievance, then praised my magnanimity, and finally asked, “What do you think?”? What do
I think? Do
they really care what I think?
I said quietly, “I feel sorry for Cece and her mother.”.
But that child can’t stay.
Liu Zhanhui looked at me in surprise.
The mother-in-law patted her thigh and almost jumped up in surprise. “You’re going to be a mother yourself. How can you be so cruel?”? Is the
cruel man really me?
I want to ask, aren’t you cruel to me?
My mother-in-law continued to persuade me that people should not be left to die.
After Xixi’s mother gave birth to the child, Liu Zhanhui did not have to take care of the child, and the child had its own grandparents.
When I give birth to a child, she will certainly help me take care of the baby, and I don’t have to worry about it. You and Zhan Hui are legally married, and your mother’s heart is definitely on your side.
“” Really?
Do you remember that your son and I are legally married? What about
your son having a child with an illegal ex-wife?
My mother-in-law was obviously blocked by my words, and she changed her way, saying, “Saving a life is better than building a seven-level pagoda.” “Now that you’re pregnant yourself, you should think of it as a blessing for the baby in your belly.
I’m too lazy to complain.
My mother-in-law went on, Sometimes things have to take the long view.
When Cece got better, things slowly got better.
When your child grows up, he will have two brothers and sisters.
Although they are half-brothers and half-sisters, they are also brothers and sisters.
In this day and age, three sisters are too precious. Actually, I didn’t mind too much what
my mother-in-law said. What
I mind more is Liu Zhanhui’s attitude.
From beginning to end, he kept silent.
This means that he acquiesces in all this, even if he fully agrees.
I made a malicious guess. Did he suffer a loss in this matter?
It’s not.
Although I joked before marriage that I wanted to be a gold-digger, in fact, I had always been financially self-sufficient and never asked him for money.
On the contrary, because of this incident, he also gained one more child.
My back broke out in a cold sweat, and my mother-in-law kept talking.
I just felt that the air was so dirty that a stream of air was running around in my body. I couldn’t hear what my mother-in-law was saying.
Suddenly, there was a sharp pain in my lower abdomen, and I couldn’t help crying out in pain. What happened back there? I don’t remember much.
8. When I opened my eyes, they were pure white. It’s so
white that it’s dazzling. The
infusion bottle, the needle in the hand.
The background sound is the “beep” of the monitoring device.
I was lying in the hospital bed, and my mother and Fan Fan were there, and their eyes were red.
Seeing me wake up, Fan Fan cried as he spoke, “Great, you finally woke up.”.
I realized what had happened and tears came to my eyes.
My mother hastened to say, “Don’t cry in the month of confinement.”.
Yes, I had a miscarriage in the midst of intense conflict and emotional ups and downs.
And in this matter, the most sad person is my mother.
She said, “If I had known, I wouldn’t have forced you to go on a blind date.”.
She also said, “Now it seems that it’s good not to get married.”.
Liu Zhanhui came to see me several times, but neither my mother nor Fan Fan gave him a good look.
He offered to stay in bed at night, but my mother wouldn’t let him. “You’d better go with your little girl.”. After
being rejected several times, he stopped asking about staying in bed.
Only come to see me twice a day. One time
early, one time late.
And I don’t want to see him. When
he came, I turned my face away from him, and when he talked to me, I didn’t bother to answer him. On
the third day, he finally couldn’t stand it any more and said to my mother, “I want to talk to Xiaoyu alone.”. The problems that
stand between us must always be solved.
I thought about it and agreed. Before
he could speak, I told him that by now, his ex-wife must give birth to the child to save people, so that I could get by.
Lao Liu was very moved and comforted me by saying that he would give me a lot of love in the future.
He also reassured me that I was still young, and that we would definitely have children again in the future. Now the key is that you have to take good care of your body first. I did listen to the advice of
nourishing my body.
I’ve made up my mind.
9. A year later, Lao Liu posted a status in the circle of friends. With the help of the healthcare workers, the match was successful and Cece was temporarily saved,
the status said.
He sent another message with only a few words, “Thank you all, and especially thank you.”.
I know. I’m the one he’s thanking. Not long
after my miscarriage, I formally filed for divorce with Lao Liu.
Lao Liu doesn’t agree.
He said he would work harder to earn money.
He said that the grandparents of the children would absolutely help each other and would not have a great impact on our lives.
He said that his family had seen that I had been wronged and would double my compensation in the future. He finally said, “I will coordinate all aspects of the relationship, and I will not let you be wronged again.”.
“” Trust me.
I can’t believe it. Shortly after
our divorce, Lao Liu remarried, and his ex-wife gave birth to a daughter. He sold the
house, but he still insisted on giving me half.
However, I didn’t ask for any money when I thought it was for curing diseases and saving lives.
It is said that everyone in the Liu family is very touched when they talk about me.
Fan Fan said I was Teresa Liang.
I know very well that I am not great, I just don’t want to be involved in this matter any more.
If I have to say, what have I learned from this relationship.
That is, the love between men and women is as light as a feather and not worth mentioning in front of the blood relationship. I didn’t leave a message or give a like to
Lao Liu’s status.
He looked for me in the small window and left a sentence, “I am most sorry for you in my life.”.
Next life, I’ll make up for it.
But is there a next life?
The mobile phone prompts that there is new information.
It turned out to be an ex who had not been contacted for ten thousand years.
He asked me how I was doing.
I said it was good. After
I chatted with him, he said that he was going to get married and decorate his house recently, and asked if he could borrow twenty thousand yuan from me.
I’m not mad.
I’m not angry.
Borrowing money is not a thing at all compared with what happened to me.
But I’m not going to be a sucker anymore-that’s a lesson I learned from my last relationship.
I thought about it and replied, “Did you borrow money? Congratulations on your marriage. I’ll give you a small red envelope.”.
I gave him a red envelope of 200 yuan. Receive in the
previous second. I laughed out loud for the first time since the
divorce.
Laughing, I actually laughed out of tears. With
tears in my eyes, I looked at a neat row of blind boxes in front of my desk.
Each blind box has a face painted on it. They seem to laugh at me. Do you think your feelings are like opening a blind box?
This set of blind box was given to me by Liu Zhanhui.
When I divorced him, I didn’t take anything but this blind box to remind me of the uncertainty in life.
Feelings are like opening a blind box, and no one can guess what emotional script they get.
I thought my script was a romantic light comedy, but my predecessor turned it into a black humor absurd drama; and when I met Liu Zhanhui, it turned out to be an out-and-out soap opera of family ethics.
I, on the other hand, was still the annoying second woman.
In our story, there is no bad guy.
But you need one person to pay the bill.
Unfortunately, it was me.
Unfortunately, a little. There are too many people between
me and Liu Zhanhui.
His two daughters, his ex-wife, his parents, my parents.. In my relationship with him, I seem to be stranded in a sudden stop elevator with this group of people, sharing the thin oxygen, waiting for help, hard to breathe.
My love with him is crowded.
Just because at that time, I didn’t understand that when you choose a man with history, his history will come to you unexpectedly one day and catch you by surprise.
Finger across the screen, I once again click on the familiar WeChat head.
Once, I would share everything with him, but his last message, I did not reply, and will never reply.
I deleted him completely.
I love him, but I want to live an easy life.
Let us, one separate two wide, each happy.
(End of full text) □ Mao Xiaodou. Pay attention and don’t get lost ~
