Your space and time.
You may feel a little guilty just looking at it, but you think it’s something everyone knows.
I would like to give an example, to say a few words, of why the last thing we can afford is our time and space.
One company has two equally good young cadres – A and B.
A few years ago, they also faced the opportunity to be promoted to the post of Assistant General Manager (Associate General) (not the kind of small assistant carrying a bag, but a higher administrative position than the Director General). There is only one post, and both are one step away from the position. From our point of view, it’s hard to separate them. Soon, an arrangement that seemed totally incomprehensible to me that year: neither of them had been given the opportunity, and A had been left at Headquarters, in charge of day-to-day management, and had been so busy every day that it looked like “reuse.”
B’s decentralized to a local branch, looks like it’s “marginalized.” I was so simple that I thought the leadership arrangement would end up in A. But I didn’t think that, just over a year later, B would come back from the locals and be a full-time helper, and A was still busy working.
It took me a long time to figure it out.
From a leadership point of view, the decentralization of B is actually a culture, and the arrangements for A can only be counted. B Owing to its remoteness from Headquarters, there is a large amount of free time available for both a deeper understanding of business, high-profile performance and more time to reflect on further growth. The so-called heavy use of A was simply to fill up all the time and consume all his energy. In the end, he was caught up in an infinity of transactional work that could neither escape nor deliver.
Not only is there such a middle-level leadership, but many of the new recruits who have just joined the job will also be faced with the confusion: “When does a new man start with a little chores? I’m sorry.
I’ve always thought that the so-called “teaching” of new people with a lot of work is a lie. It is only in order to become more familiar with the environment and work in the short term, and once this “preliminary period” has passed, it should soon enter the business scene and do more valuable work. It’s as good as a soldier, as good as a soldier.
It must be borne in mind that small things must be done, but must not be content with small things. In particular, we must be vigilant in handing over small things to your superiors. This is probably a bloody office struggle.
Countless young people with dreams have lost the momentum and the will to move forward in such a busy and inexhaustible struggle that “death” predates career development.
The only fear of personal growth is the use of non-culture, which keeps him busy every day until he has no time to charge, no time to adjust, no time to think, so that the best foundation, and the best foundation, can be emptied in a few years without the possibility of further development. I sum up my thinking in this regard into three issues.
First question: Why do we need free time?
The next move is necessary. — Triangular
My job is very busy. In the last few years, I’ve spent an average of 200 days away from home, sleeping at work or on business trips. At the end of the year, the busiest month, on average, worked more than 18 hours a day, and in less than a few days it was necessary to work late. Over the years, my time has been filled with work.
There are too many meetings in the company, too many programmes to do, too many things to coordinate and too many interpersonal relationships to handle and maintain. In this context, where else is there thought and energy to do long-term thinking and more accumulation? While I have learned to take advantage of the time of fragmentation, what I have learned from the time of fragmentation must be fast food.
That was not the case in previous years. At that time, there was plenty of time available to them because they did not take too much responsibility and worked and went home from work every day.
I have used this time to systematically read books, films, documentaries, regular physical exercise, training courses and new skills. There are several more long trips each year, climbing, going to sea and hiking. I’m going to think about a lot of things, and I’m going to go into a lot of things about life and career planning. All of this helped me to make a very big breakthrough in the first two or three years of my work. Most of my articles are the product of experience, observation, reading and reflection in previous years.
Free time means not only rest and recreation, but also sedimentation and adjustment.
Hong Kong has a reality show on ” The Fight of the Rich ” , which invites Hong Kong rich people to experience life at the bottom of days. At first, the rich were confident because they had the education, experience and “manage management” that the poor had never had.
But after a few days of experience, almost all the rich feel desperate. They need to leave early in the morning, often late in the night, to go home, to sleep in an exhausting hurry, and then continue this life. What struck me most was not just the huge gap between the rich and the poor, nor just the hardships of the bottom life, but the fact that the gap could not be bridged, even for those who were once high up, it would be difficult to turn over once they had fallen to the bottom, because life itself became everything in life. One of the guests said in the show, “I have no time to stop, not to sit for a while, not even to drink.” I’m sorry.
“There’s no other hope at all, just a good meal. Why are you planning next week? The most important thing is to fix the next meal. I’m sorry.
One of the sports stars said at the end of the show, “I’ve slept for seven hours in five days, but I know the journey is over, so I can describe it by grinding, but for people who actually live in that environment, like a pencil, it’s not getting sharper, it’s getting shorter. I’m sorry.
It’s just a few days of experience. The American bestseller Barbara Allanrick’s approach was even more extreme, taking a year to experience the bottom life and then writing a book, My Life at the Bottom.
In the book, she found an incomprehensible cycle of death.
1. Not enough money to live in remote areas to save rent. Living in remote places, they spend a lot of time on the road.
2. Much time is spent on the road and less time is devoted to upgrading itself.
3. In order to meet the increased rent and cost of living, additional hours of work or part-time work may be provided.
4. As she spent too much time doing all kinds of hard work, she became a work machine, unable to learn and promote herself, and doing the same job every day.
5. Then move one place and enter the next cycle.
All the real experiences above reveal a deep hidden truth: There is no money, there is nothing but poverty; there is no time, and there is a real problem.
When you are filled with life and work, day after day, year after year, even the body and soul are numb. Can you tell me whether you’ve lived for so many years or just a year and then repeat it all over?
Second question: What’s taking our time?
1. Emptyness
Because we’re afraid of emptiness, we’re full of time. On the way to work, in the subway, after work, after lunch, we hate to fill it up in every way, even watching a live broadcast and playing a game. Because once we’re free, we really don’t know what we’re doing.
In order to help us fill the void, all content producers are also doing their best to write increasingly obnoxious articles, to produce increasingly obnoxious ensembles, to design more and more “fun” games, and to hold on to all your leisure time.
Out of control
Eating after a while, working until the end of the week, and working late late at night, even in the middle of the night, changing to boring television, brushing letters, running a stupid web game, trying to sleep, then sleeping the next day until the afternoon…
More serious than a life out of control is a feeling out of control, and when it’s not in a good mood, everything that was decided can go away, and the whole weekend can go by the “cure” with a tablet. This irregularity of life and emotion will make you lose your sense of time.
Your life is full, but a few years later you may find it full of no memories.
3. inertia
The most typical is someone like me who takes work home. I do not know when to begin, and I suddenly realize that my work and my life have been completely divided. I never dared to turn off my phone and go home like a family visit.
Compared to the two situations before, inertia tends to be very deep, because you are not empty or out of control, just used to being so busy as to keep what you have now, and not be left behind by the progress of society.
This is nothing but a rush to gain peace. Or, as the Army said, “Tactical diligence is used to mask strategic laziness.” I’m sorry.
Third question: How to free your free time
All the phenomena and reasons for lack of free time that I have mentioned above, sum up, are two key words.
One is too full. For whatever reason, in any case, your time is too full to do anything but be busy. The other is “too messy.” You have time, but you can’t make good use of it because it’s messy. It’s like the cat of Scharding.
So the rules that allow us to rediscover and release our free time are also two.
1. If your time is “too full”, then find a way to increase it.
For example, compress other times that you can compress.
Many people know that I have a hobby for running, swimming and fitness, but all these hobbies were largely abandoned about three years ago, and the hours of sleep were reduced to five or six hours at night. I can only read, think and write with this time saved by debris.
Ultimately, the solution is to cure the symptoms and the root causes, and the real solution is to “stamp the brakes” on one’s working life.
Set yourself a goal and get busy, you have to keep reading and learning, and you have to regularly export the products of thought.
2. If your time is “too messy”, then find a way on the stock of time.
For example, to rebuild a normal life.
Every time I talk about regular life, a lot of people feel that it’s easy. It’s easy to talk about it when you’re used to letting yourself go. So here’s a one-size-fits-all method to share with you, called “to start with willpower, to keep habits.”
Dismantling means using all your will to make your own determination from one day to another to change a life that was previously chaotic.
In order to help you make up your mind, you can design a very ritualic scene, or you can touch yourself through something, someone. The best time is when your life is so chaotic and you’re so sorry that you can’t live.
It doesn’t matter, as far as I’m concerned, whether or not this man was a scoundrel or a scoundrel, he was the most powerful. This is when the determination is strongest. But as far as I can see, such determination often does not last for three days. Don’t overestimate the power of will, which is a powerful, unsustainable thing, like a bursting fire, with enormous and instantaneous energy. You can use it to light up the beginning of your “rebirth” but you have to rely on habits to last.
What do you do with a fixed amount of time every day, and in a few weeks or months, you can create a new neural connection in your brain that you can do without thinking. Once you try to organize your life and make time more orderly, you realize you actually have a lot of free time.
Believe me, for the vast majority of young people, time is the only capital of reverse growth.
Only by learning to give ourselves time and space forever will we be able to find something we really love early and to find our own life goals.
I think a lot of people have the same mental error I have. That is, something that you really like has to wait until a certain foundation is reached. That’s the way it is, too. When you are young, you pursue basic things in accordance with popular thinking and with secular standards. When there is a certain foundation, you can re-choice and move on.
In fact, this is not a question of either. And that’s one of the most important points I’ve ever had when I was talking to Cochrane: he could’ve thought a little earlier about what to do when he was 40.
There is confusion at every stage of life. When young people say “I don’t know what to do”, they often mean they don’t know what to do to earn a lot of money and what to do to succeed in the world. By saying “I don’t know what to do” in the middle of the year, it often means that I don’t know how to keep the rest of my life from fear, anxiety, regret or regret.
The people are either unaware, or the Prophet sees.
The prophets, who know not only what they want, but also what they do not want, know when to trade, when to fight and when to give up strategically.
People who do not know are always pushed by life and currents to pass, to pass, to be dazzled, without purpose, without direction, and without action that truly desires to move forward.
So you have to think a little earlier. Thinking about what you’re really into, what you’re really worth to, what you’re going to change and what you’re going to influence.
It’s not a matter of thinking, one night, of excitement. It takes time. You can put it in your subconscious and think about it when it’s okay. It’s possible that one day you’ll figure out what you’re doing. Believe me, it is not possible to decide in one day or in a month what to do and want to do.
It’s possible you were in your 10s thinking about being the owner of a hotel, so you tried to wipe the table and the dishes. And then, in your 20s, you suddenly figured it out and you ran out and said it. If you don’t think about it for a while, you don’t think about anything, or forget it tomorrow. Then after 40 years of uncertainty, halfway through the year, it suddenly became clear that it was true sorrow that it had not yet become clear what to do.
I’ve divided this whole life into three categories of things that deserve my deep attention.
Following the true preferences of the heart
It’s like choosing a partner. Imagine, if you want to spend your life with this person, can you live with all its shortcomings and find all the flashpoints of life, whether poor or rich? Work too. Such a willingness to spend a lifetime must not be easy to give up, no matter how hard or how hard it may be.
In 2017, a video sent by an Internet friend to the porter, Zhu Zhou Zhou Pei, quickly went red. She’s in the video, she’s wearing hot pants with a vest, carrying a bag with her bare hands and weight of up to 40 pounds, showing a hard muscle line. Soon, the Hong Kong version of Laura’s name took over the headlines in the major media. Interviews, shows, proxies, her inspirational stories are being spread wildly.
Indeed, she did not develop as popularly conceived. There were many ways to live after the fire, but she chose to go back to the streets because she was sober and knew what she wanted. She prefers to keep smiling and repeat her story over and over and over again, to move goods, push carts, and get tired of sweating.
The porter has no choice in the eyes of most people, but in Chu’s view, the goods that do not speak are better dealt with than people, move things while they exercise, and follow the car and are free. She chose her own path, and she was convinced that she’d be happy to finish. In the face of the future, she planned a step-by-step exercise: then she had to take the driver’s license, become a truck driver and go to the supervisor. “I love this industry, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it. I’m sorry.
Let what’s good at do it.
One of my friends is a doctor of agronomy. At the time of graduation, there was a good opportunity to go to higher education or research institutions to continue researching hybrids and breeding and to pursue academic paths of their own. But he’s attracted to the “civil servant hot” and he’s gone to a government office. After all, the level of education is not low at the beginning. The problem is that the government office simply does not need his research capacity.
Later, he gave up all his professional skills, competed with a group of young people about how to write materials, draw graphics, how to rank leaders, how to handle superior examinations, etc. After several years, he has not only made no progress in his post, but has also been physically and mentally exhausted. Many of his Ph.D. students have become professors, have a reputation in the field of expertise, have social status, have sustained careers and are passionate about the future.
Every time he talks about it, he’s always saying, “I’m sorry.” His competence lies in academic research, not in writing materials, organizing meetings, running legs and drawing charts.
Wang Xing of the Corps once said that he had had the privilege of having many oxen lectures in Qinghua while undergraduate. The biggest influence on him was on April 19, 2001, when Habemas gave a visiting speech at the Qinghua Law School, where he tried to get in. After hearing about it, there is an important reason: don’t waste time listening to things you don’t understand, no matter how famous the other side is.
Life is the same, so don’t go on roads that you can’t be good at, even if they look bright and bright.
As to how to find out what you’re good at, another Nobel laureate once defined something that you do better than others, and that’s what you like to do.
Like physics, a lot of people can’t read it, but they learn very well, whether it’s Zhu or Zhu. They feel that physics is simple, that they don’t have to work too hard at first, and that physics and mathematics often score well at school.
3. Selection of natural gains over time
It’s important to choose the natural gains over time, because everyone’s time is the same, and you do this or that today, you have to work and do something. Some things you do for 10 years are the same. There are things that, with a little snack, have a year of progress for every year. Ten years have passed, and some have stepped in, and you are likely to be an expert in a certain field.
In the documentary, ” My relics in the Palace ” , everyone is doing a job they really like or are good at. More importantly, the things they do, while they look boring, are just as progressive over time. Every one of them, a painted, a fixed watch, a sketch, and at the end of the day, became the most representative of the country in this field. Being an influential person is what is really worth living for.
The best way of discovering the true value of one ‘ s own is probably to give one ‘ s own space and time to try different possibilities, once and for all, in addition to the job. Within eight hours is for the job and eight hours is for the job. It is the greatest failure of life to try, not to jump out of the comfort loop, to be content to take a narrower path and end up in a company. Case number: YX11n25Dwqz
I don’t know.
Keep your eyes on the road.
